wlek mabrook ya fidelio, may the lord guide you through this enormous step and may you become a kinder and gentler human being. Please do remember it's called the honeymoon for a valid reason so do take advantage of it. Honey if left to the whims of love becomes acidic in no time. But Hey 20 years ago I met a guy who was in a wonderful marriage, that was before he met his current wife, that is.