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Originally Posted by Omeros 
لا اتصور ............انا متاكدة ان من يحرم من شئ يعطيه ....خصوصا من يحرم من الحب والحنان يعطيه اكثر مما هو بنفسه الفرد قادر على التخيل يعطي لحد الجنون ...يعطي حتى يموت هلاكا ليس فقط مع الولد بل بشكل عام مع كل الافراد ....مع الاصدقاء ...مع حتى الذين لا يعرفهم
لكن هنا هذا الامر ليس بمطروح ليس مطروحا ان سيكون قادرا على فعل الحنان او لا ...المطروح هو ما سيحصل لليتيم بحد ذاته ان مات احد والديه من اجله .....دائما علينا اتفكير بالنتائج ( حتى لو ميت وحشري ...نعم انا ميت وحشري) ....افضل ان اموت مع والدي لو كان الخيار بيدي ...اصلا لم تقبلت ان يموت من اجلي ....افضل ان اموت من اجله ...قمة الانانية ربما ...لكنني اموت من اجل من احب ولا اريد ان يموت من يحبني من اجلي
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True, if a child lives with a lack of love, in the future he/she will unwillingly maybe try to give more than needed because of the fact of the deprevation that he/she lived.
I doubt that the love of a child can be matched by any other type of love. The love of a child, is a unique form of love, very different from that of a woman, a man, a freind, etc. This I can debate with you in another thread.
An orphan is a human. Maybe a human with a deficiency of love, of attention, but nonetheless a human capable of living a normal life, and giving maybe more than others. We're all orphans at one time in our lives.
I will not dispute your feelings, they are your own and no matter how hard I try to understand them, I am not the one living them. I will respect them but still think differently.
My sister was 5 years old when she lost her father, 6 when she lost her mother. What was I to do? Kill her to relieve her of her misery, or love her more than I can believe I could to make her life as normal as possible? Just a small example.
Maybe one day the child will become a father, or a mother. Who has the right to deny them that right?
لكنني اموت من اجل من احب ولا اريد ان يموت من يحبني من اجلي I agree, me too.
16th July 2007
...or maybe it's just me 
but that's off-topic!
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