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Originally Posted by CPL Just go and sign the marriage certificate. I really don't understand this in Lebanese weddings. It's always a show off. The big cocktails, the expensive decoration, a bishop if you can afford one. The glamour the whatever. And it costs tons, just so that people show off and others gossip about it.
Is it the most important day in one's life? Maybe. But I don't see how 1000 guests should be part of my happiness with the other. Especially when I have to feed them, and they have to gossip behind my back.
So if there's love, take a boat to cyprus and marry, with the nuclear families, and a pair of shorts. |
CPL, why going to Cyprus for a civil marriage if the Mariés wanna marry with the benediction of God. You know not all Lebanese or foreign people don't believe in God.
In addition, it is the habit in your family and it don't only concern Lebanon. A very close person to me is getting married in France this summer with a frenchee and they are inviting more than 200 people. They didn't choose to sign a paper, they wanted this day to be the most beautiful one. They want to share their love with millions of people. Over europe, there is a lot of couple who decide to live together, have kids without marriage, Others lives together for years and once they decide to get married they like to share it ith all the friends and families and... It is a habit!The person I am talking about, will have a religious marriage 30 mn after the civil one. She will do a cocktail after the marriage, plus a big dinner. And the second day, the habit here is to organise a brunch with all the closest friends and family! Yes it is a habit or the will of the Mariés.
So don't judge Lebanese society for that because it is not always true! I know people in leb, who did religious marriage with only 15 people because they can't afford more.When you can afford it, go for it, it is once your life and especially for a girl, it is a dream that becomes reality....
Regards,
Lebanese_dream