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Will you make a commitment with your love, be it your wife or husband, that if someday, one of the two of you died for some reason, you will never marry somebody else?
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You don't know if you can keep such a commitment, or you don't know if you can agree on such a commitment?
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I dont like commitments... actually i do... commitments that last one night eza shi...
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Will you make a commitment with your love, be it your wife or husband, that if someday, one of the two of you died for some reason, you will never marry somebody else?
i will never accept such a commitement . if i love a person i can never ask something like that i will want him to always be happy , to find a new compagnion a new love.
how selfish i will be to ask him to keep living in solitude faithfull to my memory . i will be thankfull for the great life and love i had with him but once i am gone he has to go on with his life . i dont think who ever realy love can ask something like that .
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I would not make such a commitment.

However I know that if anything were to happen to my partner, I would find it unthinkable to be with anyone else.

That does not mean it wouldn't happen...you never know what your own situation and mind might be if that were to happen, so it may be hard to judge.

But if anything were to happen to me, there is nothing more I would want for her than to be happy, and that includes continuing with her life and a partner if she desires too. I'll just reserve a place for her next to me in the next phase. ;p
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Boiler the title of the thread is the total opposite of the question you're asking :P Till death do us part means together till death separates us. You're asking for a commitment even after death.

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Will you make a commitment with your love, be it your wife or husband, that if someday, one of the two of you died for some reason, you will never marry somebody else?
Some people start preparing for the new one while the first is dying!

To me life is just a short episode, there's much more coming after it. Death breaks the bond of marriage, religiously speaking; I believe in one marriage and one true love (as romantically out of this world as it may sound lol). I'd like to believe that love commitments can transgress the physical to what is much deeper and everlasting. However, happiness is the key word here, I wouldn't want anyone to commit to my spirit :D after I depart unless it's something he himself chooses. I'd want him to be happy in this life but to favour me over anyone else here and in the afterlife :D

...و من هنا، و من على هذا المنبر، أعلن أمام الملأ

...if 'death do us part', it would take me more than a lifetime to get over it... so one commitment it can only be.
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Will you make a commitment with your love, be it your wife or husband, that if someday, one of the two of you died for some reason, you will never marry somebody else?
I would never ask my beloved for this after death commitment. ...
If i really love him i will just send him free ... he has all the right to continue his life....And if we had Children I just ask him to chose a good person who can really take care of him and our children and love them as much as they deserve.

As for me, if he is the one who died before me, i may be loyal to him for the rest of life.
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I would never ask my beloved for this after death commitment. ...
If i really love him i will just send him free ... he has all the right to continue his life....And if we had Children I just ask him to chose a good person who can really take care of him and our children and love them as much as they deserve.

As for me, if he is the one who died before me, i may be loyal to him for the rest of life.
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i will never accept such a commitement . if i love a person i can never ask something like that i will want him to always be happy , to find a new compagnion a new love.
how selfish i will be to ask him to keep living in solitude faithfull to my memory . i will be thankfull for the great life and love i had with him but once i am gone he has to go on with his life . i dont think who ever realy love can ask something like that .
coralie, You won't ask him for such a commitment.
What if he's suggesting this?
I won't marry someone else my love, same for you.
Will you at least think about it?
I'm talking about two souls which are crazy about eachother.
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