advanced search
Contact Us tayyar.org
 
The Orange Room - forum.tayyar.org
 



Notices
Self Improvement Health, Fitness, Diet, Exercise, Religion, Meditation, Beauty, & Attire. In addition to seeking advice on how to deal with social, psychological, and physiological issues.

Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Search this Thread
  (#1 (permalink)) Old
 
Omeros's Avatar
 
Offline
Posts: 5,770
Thanks: 341
Thanked 110 Times in 84 Posts
Last Online: 18th April 2009
Join Date: Mon Jan 2005
View Omeros's Photo Album
Default Spontaneity - 17th August 2007

i dont know if it is wrong the fact of being SPONTANEOUS but i know this is a basic of many problem in our society and between humans .....
this spontaneity have many reasons but until this moment i couldn't discover any
so im so curious to know what are the basics of GULLIBILITY
how to stop this ?
can we control those reaction ? and how ?
how ur more comfortable with a someone UNRESTRAINED or someone who calculate his words ?

in the end i will say : "Analysis kills spontaneity. The grain once ground into flour springs and germinates no more."
Henri Frederic Amiel
Reply With Quote
Sponsored Links
  (#2 (permalink)) Old
Registered Member
 
DaManInChrist's Avatar
 
Offline
Posts: 683
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Last Online: 11th April 2009
Join Date: Sun Oct 2006
View DaManInChrist's Photo Album
Default 22nd August 2007

Analysis is better than spontaneity, but it's not always the right method to use.

For example, accepting what the omniscient God says is much better than analysis based on erroneous and miscalculated conclusions.
Reply With Quote
  (#3 (permalink)) Old
Registered Member
 
DITOU's Avatar
 
Offline
Posts: 479
Thanks: 30
Thanked 56 Times in 40 Posts
Last Online: 2 Weeks Ago
Join Date: Tue Jul 2007
View DITOU's Photo Album
Default 22nd August 2007

Quote:
Originally Posted by Omeros View Post
i dont know if it is wrong the fact of being SPONTANEOUS but i know this is a basic of many problem in our society and between humans .....
this spontaneity have many reasons but until this moment i couldn't discover any
so im so curious to know what are the basics of GULLIBILITY
how to stop this ?
can we control those reaction ? and how ?
how ur more comfortable with a someone UNRESTRAINED or someone who calculate his words ?

in the end i will say : "Analysis kills spontaneity. The grain once ground into flour springs and germinates no more."
Henri Frederic Amiel
when you act with LOVE being spontanious is what you are and what is right . being spontanious is being yourself saying truthfully what you believe in , what you think , what you see , what you want , away from the fake the devilish calculations, deep analysis and personal intrests .
those who follow norms , words , use analysis before talking are fake they show nothing but lies and hide behind false faces , would you like this better then facing a person who express his her self sponteniously ?
when Love is driving you do not hide it go for it say openly and clearely what is on your mind , if ppl Loves you they will accept it and understand it if they dont no matter what you do they will always misinterpratate your words and you will be failling all the way toward them and toward yourself !
Reply With Quote
  (#4 (permalink)) Old
Registered Member
 
DaManInChrist's Avatar
 
Offline
Posts: 683
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Last Online: 11th April 2009
Join Date: Sun Oct 2006
View DaManInChrist's Photo Album
Default 22nd August 2007

Quote:
Originally Posted by DITOU View Post
when you act with LOVE being spontanious is what you are and what is right . being spontanious is being yourself saying truthfully what you believe in , what you think , what you see , what you want , away from the fake the devilish calculations, deep analysis and personal intrests .
those who follow norms , words , use analysis before talking are fake they show nothing but lies and hide behind false faces , would you like this better then facing a person who express his her self sponteniously ?
when Love is driving you do not hide it go for it say openly and clearely what is on your mind , if ppl Loves you they will accept it and understand it if they dont no matter what you do they will always misinterpratate your words and you will be failling all the way toward them and toward yourself !
Everyone brags about his/her own love these days. But I'd like to see some acts that prove they have real love ... not just empty words.
Reply With Quote
  (#5 (permalink)) Old
Registered Member
 
Dude's Avatar
 
Offline
Posts: 236
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Last Online: 26th September 2008
Join Date: Fri Mar 2007
View Dude's Photo Album
Default 22nd August 2007

one of my life lessons about spontaneity: I walked into a store to buy cigarettes and i had just enough money for the cigarettes. while asking the store keeper for the pack of cigarette, i noticed from the tags he'd put on the shelves, that he sold it for 10 cents more expensive than the price in other stores. now the good thing is that the guy didn't hear what i told him so asked if to give me that cheaper pack which i could afford at that moment. Now had the guy heard the first time it would've been embarrassing. this is one type of spontaneous. the other type is spontaneous talking, this is good only with ppl you know.
Reply With Quote
Reply

  The Orange Room - forum.tayyar.org FPM Community Forums Self Improvement


Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search

 
Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On

Forum Jump

Forums Directory