Overcome the break up - Page 4 - The Orange Room

Frisbeetarian

Denial denial...and then some more denial. Always works, but in in the long run it couldnt end up screwing with your full deck of cards if u know what i mean.

LebSpy

Try to go out as much as possible with anyone (friends, family, new girls/guys) :D

and when you're alone at home, put some patriotic songs and listen to them. That's the best way for me not to think about something called relationship (in such cases).

vegojimbo

The worst thing is if you keep encountering your ex every day after the breakup (because of work, study, living in the same building, etc....), because all your attempts and plans you have put to forget over him/her will go up in smoke the moment you lay your eyes again on that person.

It's hell of a lot easier if after the breakup, both of you never (or rarely at least) see each other again.

Frisbeetarian

There are more important things to think about and preoccupy oneself with. It is of an excessive triviality to be thinking about long rusting relationships. Thinking about said relationships will yield nothing and will waste ones time.

....see learn people, this is how you invoke denial

shadow1

Listen to some sad songs, cry a little, take up some new hobby if you are a man or read Jane Austen novels if you are a woman and go on.
Time wasted on self-pity is a wasted time indeed. There are plenty of other fish in the sea if you are young and a lot of gardening to do if you are old. If none of these remedies works, there is suicide for those who cant cope with the defeat. It's speedy, honourable and the stuff that makes novels all the more poignant.

vegojimbo

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Originally Posted by Frisbeetarian

It is of an excessive triviality to be thinking about long rusting relationships. Thinking about said relationships will yield nothing and will waste ones time.

Depends on whether Love was involved or not.

Nayla

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Originally Posted by kalel

so what will you do if u were in a certain relationship and in some way it ended up. how would u bounce back ? make things easier on yourself ?

It'll be good to have some very good music which cheers you up, I mean joyful songs or music with joyful words.

Some narcissism is good in such a case cz you need to love yourself to get out of this sadness.

Choose some real friends to hang out from time to time, listen to jokes, watch comedy, try to not be alone too much time.

And it's very important to not hate her. I mean, stop loving her without any hatered feelings cz you'll suffer after that.

Tow or three months are more than enough to get totally out of this relationship, believe me :D

Wish you good luck