Overcome the break up - The Orange Room

MissLaymoune

1- place where u will relax and maybe meet ur destiny. But getting laid with the first comer is not recommended because such liaisons only lead to trouble. & don't go mad on alcohol. It would ruin your appearance and aggravate your depression.

2- take urself in hand and visit a gym, or take a walk in a park, or go out to the forest with your friend. Nature is a good healer. Try to analyze ur situation sensibly no matter the desperation u r in. It will come in useful to u in the future. You were wrong in some situations but he was not an angel either. But make this analysis on your own, don't call him on the phone and beg him to come back.

3-Don't try to convince urself that he was one and only in your life. It might have not been your first love affair and it won't be the last one. You will surely meet your significant other and you'll be happy.

4- Avoid harboring hope that u and ur ex-partner will get back together. This is the crucial time when u must demonstrate strength and reluctance in letting those thoughts get into your head. Being strong now will most certainly pay off in the future

5-Stop reminiscing on the wonderful times that u and ur ex had while u were together. Such wonderful memories r great to have, and u should be thankful that u had those great experiences and feelings. However, at that most painful time, right after breaking up, these thoughts do nothing good to you and only aggravate your pain and prolong your recovery by making you feel that you sustained a major loss.

6-Perceive ur recent break-up as a great opportunity to learn how to deal with such experiences and become a stronger and a more mature individual. Like any other challenging experience that pushes ur emotional levels

7- Lastly, continue living! Pursue your professional and social goals and don’t leave much space for boredom in your life. This is not the right time to “relax.” You will have plenty of time to relax once you are over your ex and perhaps once you met someone new.

Breaking up is hard, but it can be a positive experience if u allow it to be. It can make u grow and become a stronger and a more attractive person. Make sure u take advantage of those valuable life lessons!

MOVE ON :)

suomynona

It's too much. Jack Daniels is your friend.

MissLaymoune

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Originally Posted by suomynona

It's too much. Jack Daniels is your friend.

LOL suomynona iza hek , sar l jack Daniels TOO much for him/her

Tayyar Keserwen

After the break-up, i usually go clubbing/pub with my friends to find someone else...

That combined with vodka is the perfect combination.

CPL

I sit back, light a cigarette, and say: oh yeah

!

MissLaymoune

well ... usually after break up I feel up set for about 10 mins if there was a strong relationship and 2 mins if it was just for passing time ! as if the life is going to stop !!!

Tayyar Keserwen

Break ups are overrated... Go have fun, and try to keep contact with ur ex's, dunno when u might re-need them in the future for special treats/favors...Just make sure u got lots of ex's :)

coralie

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Originally Posted by Tayyar Keserwen

Break ups are overrated... Go have fun, and try to keep contact with ur ex's, dunno when u might re-need them in the future for special treats/favors...Just make sure u got lots of ex's :)

wlo chou masla7ji ya TK ....

well i will just say this : time heal all wounds .

friendofzeus

I found that going to the gym and blowing off steam with heavy exercising really helped shake off the stress and depression.

LebWreck

im still in the 'trying to move on' process,it doesn't look good...i miss her heaps but after all it was my call n i have to stick to it for a billion reason. the gym cure sounds great ima try it. live and let live..moving on..