One Night Stands

[dream33]

Originally Posted by Inanna

one night stand is something that i wouldnt encourage at all, at least that's my opinion!
maybe i refuse to see things that sexual and that easy, i believe that taking time in things is the only way to make them work, again that's me!
and most of all, i dont want to imagine the feeling next day, and it's not about feeling used or about using someone, but the feeling of knowing that you did it, but it's over...

why women's think about challenge when it comes to sexual relation with a men? why?

[dream33]

Originally Posted by Stella

While to men its not a big deal, why?

Because we born to mate with more then one women!
That's why girls born more then boys!!

[Stella]

Originally Posted by dream33

Because we born to mate with more then one women!
That's why girls born more then boys!!

hahahaha man you are funny

I wonder you also believe what you are talking or just entertaining us?

[don_olo]

I quote from one of the RAHABNE " la 2a3rif esmak wala ta3rif esme , la 2e7moul hamak wala te7moul hame , mnetle2a gouraba ,mnetfera2 gouraba , laylit sa3ade rou7 wala yhemak "
those are RAHABNE and i can't disagree with them . :)

[Stella]

Originally Posted by don_olo

I quote from one of the RAHABNE " la 2a3rif esmak wala ta3rif esme , la 2e7moul hamak wala te7moul hame , mnetle2a gouraba ,mnetfera2 gouraba , laylit sa3ade rou7 wala yhemak "
those are RAHABNE and i can't disagree with them . :)

Can you please translate it? Thanks

[stigmata]

Originally Posted by Superman

Men usually show off with it to show how manly they are! How Don Juan's they are! And at the same time, some women show off with it to show that they have control over men! There's many of those all over the world. And I think that men/women who love one night stands are maybe afraid of commitment or maybe love to control the opposite sexe, or love to manipulate their feelings...

I also doubt that people can feel love during one night stands cause one night stands are all about sex! Yet sometimes Stella, one night stands could lead to love between 2 persons. One night stands usually happen at a party when u're drunk, maybe when u're feeling lonely or even frustrated... Fachet khele2 in other words :)

i agree 100% with u superman, u wrote what i wanted to say.

[Bachir]

There is no pleasure having sex without emotional feelings , who looks for a one night stand is missing a lot of pleasure. and who didnt try sex with someone he/she loves obviously didnt have sex at all.
the only pleasure a man can get is about "look at me, Im the man, I'll add her on my list..." this man is not having sex for himself, he is having sex to show up in front of his mates.

[Mey]

Well Bachir I respect your opinion, but of course it is an opinion not a fact.

Some people believe that sex is independant from love (I feel so too), however sex with someone you love is far more intense.

As for your question Stella, why is it normal for men while hard for women, well it is mostly because of society norms, again the whole problem revolves around the fact that most societies are patriarchal thus conservative when it comes to women freedom, in liberal societies that have equality, you do not experience such prejudice.

[Abufijli]

Originally Posted by Mahyar

Well Bachir I respect your opinion, but of course it is an opinion not a fact.

Some people believe that sex is independant from love (I feel so too), however sex with someone you love is far more intense.

Most defenitly, sex and love are two seperate things for men mainly. A man can have be married and love his wife dearly yet sleep with another woman without having any feelings what so ever.

But women generally attach the two together, that is why it would be hard for me to accept my partner ever cheating on me. They see sex as the pinnacle or continuation of love.

Is that true ladies?

[CedarJet]

Originally Posted by Stella

Ok to avoid generalization, women shall confirm, but maybe theres a truth in it that women cant have sex without having feelings toward the partner, and if they do have they suffer from it after.

While to men its not a big deal, why?

You start off by saying to avoid generalization and you end off by doing just that.

You say that to men it's not big deal, and wonder why. Well, you might as well keep on wondering, because there is no answer to such a question.

Generalization, as you may be aware, doesn't get you anywhere. This is more of a personal level. Men and women can have sex without getting attached nor have any feelings. It's not something that men have where women lack.

I'm afraid you're going into this thread with some thoughts that you're already convinced of, and not really wanting to hear what other people have to say about the idea, both men and women. 3 pages later, and you're asking why men don't have any feelings and are animals, whereas poor little girls can't but feel for the guy and end up getting hurt.

Sex is for all genders, and believe you me, the one nighters are for both guys and girls, or else we'd be having a gay epidemic.