lost hope !

[Omeros]

حين ترى ان كل الواقع يناقض ما في معتقداتك !
حين تسمع كل ما خفت ان تسمعه منذ الصغر!
حين ترى اسواء مصير مقبل ولا يسعك فعل شئ !
حين ترى المرض يصل لذروته !
حين ترى احب الافراد يبتعدون !
حين ترى كل من حولك يتحرك في حياته وانت وحدك الثابت !
حين ترى كابوسك حقيقة .....!!!
حين ترى عالمك كله محصور ببضعة كلمات !
حين لا ترى اي ضوء في الافق
حين تزول حتى احلامك ................................
ايحق لك ان تفقد الامل ؟
ان فقدت الامل ما تفعل ؟
ان كانت احدى الافكار باتت واقعا ...ماذا تفعل ؟
ان اصبح واقعا اكبر مخاوفك ماذا تفعل ؟
اتلتجئ لحلم اخر ؟
اتلتجئ لبلد او واقع اخر؟
اتترك ماضيك ومستقبلك؟
حين ترى ان باب حياتك سدة منافذه ....انك يا انسان ..حتى الله لا يساعدك ماذا تفقل ؟

[Akhwat belmarra]

Originally Posted by Omeros

حين ترى ان كل الواقع يناقض ما في معتقداتك !
حين تسمع كل ما خفت ان تسمعه منذ الصغر!
حين ترى اسواء مصير مقبل ولا يسعك فعل شئ !
حين ترى المرض يصل لذروته !
حين ترى احب الافراد يبتعدون !
حين ترى كل من حولك يتحرك في حياته وانت وحدك الثابت !
حين ترى كابوسك حقيقة .....!!!
حين ترى عالمك كله محصور ببضعة كلمات !
حين لا ترى اي ضوء في الافق
حين تزول حتى احلامك ................................
ايحق لك ان تفقد الامل ؟
ان فقدت الامل ما تفعل ؟
ان كانت احدى الافكار باتت واقعا ...ماذا تفعل ؟
ان اصبح واقعا اكبر مخاوفك ماذا تفعل ؟
اتلتجئ لحلم اخر ؟
اتلتجئ لبلد او واقع اخر؟
اتترك ماضيك ومستقبلك؟
حين ترى ان باب حياتك سدة منافذه ....انك يا انسان ..حتى الله لا يساعدك ماذا تفقل ؟

Allow me to translate, and answer each of your points.

When you hear realities contradicting your convictions,
Maybe you should change your convictions to meet realities of life.

When you hear everything you were scared to hear in your childhood,
Maybe you should match your age and be an adult, childhood comes once never to be repeated.

When you see the worst destiny coming and you’re incapable of doing anything,
Maybe you should change the way you view things, look at them from a different perspective. Maybe that destiny is not as bad as you think, maybe changes can be made to suit your needs, just maybe.

When you see sickness reaches its peak,
Is this a physical sickness? If it is treatments are available for anything nowadays, any other type of sickness is also treatable.

When you see the most loved ones slowly getting far away,
Maybe you’re the cause, maybe you made them loose hope in you, maybe you arrogance pushed them farther, maybe they can’t stand seeing you getting hurt and hurting yourself all the time. Many maybes on this one, if they truly love you, and they are more than one, the problem is you not them. Love is a two way road, you get from it as much as you give.

When you see all advancing in their lives, and you’re standing still.
Move like the rest of them, set your goals, and go for them. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, and move. It’s up to you, and only you.

When you see your nightmare a reality,
Deal with it. If it is, or became a reality you can’t sit back and do nothing. Fight, that’s what humans are good at.

When you see your whole existence summarized in a few words, when you don’t see the light at the horizon.
You’re living in a dream world, wake up. That world is non-existent.

When your dreams fade,
Dream new ones, that’s why they’re dreams, you achieve some, and some dissolve with time.

The answer to the rest of your post is within the words up there, read them carefully maybe you’ll understand something.

[Omeros]

Originally Posted by Akhwat belmarra

Allow me to translate, and answer each of your points.

When you hear realities contradicting your convictions,
Maybe you should change your convictions to meet realities of life.

When you hear everything you were scared to hear in your childhood,
Maybe you should match your age and be an adult, childhood comes once never to be repeated.

When you see the worst destiny coming and you’re incapable of doing anything,
Maybe you should change the way you view things, look at them from a different perspective. Maybe that destiny is not as bad as you think, maybe changes can be made to suit your needs, just maybe.

When you see sickness reaches its peak,
Is this a physical sickness? If it is treatments are available for anything nowadays, any other type of sickness is also treatable.

When you see the most loved ones slowly getting far away,
Maybe you’re the cause, maybe you made them loose hope in you, maybe you arrogance pushed them farther, maybe they can’t stand seeing you getting hurt and hurting yourself all the time. Many maybes on this one, if they truly love you, and they are more than one, the problem is you not them. Love is a two way road, you get from it as much as you give.

When you see all advancing in their lives, and you’re standing still.
Move like the rest of them, set your goals, and go for them. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, and move. It’s up to you, and only you.

When you see your nightmare a reality,
Deal with it. If it is, or became a reality you can’t sit back and do nothing. Fight, that’s what humans are good at.

When you see your whole existence summarized in a few words, when you don’t see the light at the horizon.
You’re living in a dream world, wake up. That world is non-existent.

When your dreams fade,
Dream new ones, that’s why they’re dreams, you achieve some, and some dissolve with time.

The answer to the rest of your post is within the words up there, read them carefully maybe you’ll understand something.

from the tone of your reply, it seems like the title of the thread applied to you at some time? dare share the experience?"

[Akhwat belmarra]

Originally Posted by Omeros

from the tone of your reply, it seems like the title of the thread applied to you at some time? dare share the experience?"

I believe you started this thread because of deficiencies that you felt.
My reply stems from my experiences in life; it is not a reflection of my personality.
I didn't mean you any offense; merely I was trying to shed some light on some things that you may have overlooked.
Your language was very strong, so I assumed that your words carried true feelings.
Maybe I was wrong in my assumption.
Regardless, I’ll be glad to discuss the content of my reply as it pertains to your thread, not to my own personality.

[Omeros]

Originally Posted by Akhwat belmarra

I believe you started this thread because of deficiencies that you felt.
My reply stems from my experiences in life; it is not a reflection of my personality.
I didn't mean you any offense; merely I was trying to shed some light on some things that you may have overlooked.
Your language was very strong, so I assumed that your words carried true feelings.
Maybe I was wrong in my assumption.
Regardless, I’ll be glad to discuss the content of my reply as it pertains to your thread, not to my own personality.

go check http://www.lfpm.org/forum/showthread...=27135&page=20
ull find million idea and each one is the opposite of the other ...thats mean im a writer and i discribe what i see just what i see when i see i feel so i write the feelings down
second: i opend that thread cz:
اردت ان اددع الافراد يزورون افلام الرعب في عقولهم ويواجهونها والنرى كيف يتصرفون ....وكيف اتصرف انا ايضا في وقت لاحق ..لكن لتقول كيف تتصرف عليك ان تعرض الواقع
اشعر انني معلمة اشرح الموضوع وانتم توسعونه :P
anyway :) lets go be the firsrt one AKHWAT BEL MARRA AND PLZ BE AKHWAT :)

[Akhwat belmarra]

Originally Posted by Omeros

go check http://www.lfpm.org/forum/showthread...=27135&page=20
ull find million idea and each one is the opposite of the other ...thats mean im a writer and i discribe what i see just what i see when i see i feel so i write the feelings down
second: i opend that thread cz:
اردت ان اددع الافراد يزورون افلام الرعب في عقولهم ويواجهونها والنرى كيف يتصرفون ....وكيف اتصرف انا ايضا في وقت لاحق ..لكن لتقول كيف تتصرف عليك ان تعرض الواقع
اشعر انني معلمة اشرح الموضوع وانتم توسعونه :P
anyway :) lets go be the firsrt one AKHWAT BEL MARRA AND PLZ BE AKHWAT :)

didnt realize you were a writer just presenting ideas for others to elaborate on. Your link is meaningless as it pertains to this thread.
As for you being a teacher, explaining a subject and allowing others to expand it, you did not explain anything, you just presented a bunch of ideas common to every person and asked for a solution, or for a reaction. I reacted.
If my reaction is uncalled for, so be it. If not, i presented facts that deal with the subjects you presented. Maybe i'm right, maybe not, either way i opened the discussion that you were aiming for.
my answers are in no way radical, but remain very doable and objective. No need to go to extremes when one's life is at stake.

[coralie]

Originally Posted by Omeros

حين ترى ان كل الواقع يناقض ما في معتقداتك !
حين تسمع كل ما خفت ان تسمعه منذ الصغر!
حين ترى اسواء مصير مقبل ولا يسعك فعل شئ !
حين ترى المرض يصل لذروته !
حين ترى احب الافراد يبتعدون !
حين ترى كل من حولك يتحرك في حياته وانت وحدك الثابت !
حين ترى كابوسك حقيقة .....!!!
حين ترى عالمك كله محصور ببضعة كلمات !
حين لا ترى اي ضوء في الافق
حين تزول حتى احلامك ................................
ايحق لك ان تفقد الامل ؟
ان فقدت الامل ما تفعل ؟
ان كانت احدى الافكار باتت واقعا ...ماذا تفعل ؟
ان اصبح واقعا اكبر مخاوفك ماذا تفعل ؟
اتلتجئ لحلم اخر ؟
اتلتجئ لبلد او واقع اخر؟
اتترك ماضيك ومستقبلك؟
حين ترى ان باب حياتك سدة منافذه ....انك يا انسان ..حتى الله لا يساعدك ماذا تفقل ؟

life never offer gifts my dear Omeros .
life is a neverending battle . you do your battles or you dont .it is all up to you . it is only when you let yourself lose HOPE that you will lose all your battles and nothing will last you will find your self drawning in sadness until time stop for you , hope is the dynamo of our straingth and our will to continue despite our failiure our losses and our desprate state of mind .
what i do when i feel all doors are closed ? i never lose hope and say to my self tomorow is another day , when a door is close there is always a small window somewhere open from where the light can enter . its up to me to keep looking for this window . this is hope !

[Stella]

Originally Posted by Akhwat belmarra

didnt realize you were a writer just presenting ideas for others to elaborate on. Your link is meaningless as it pertains to this thread.

Check that link again:)

As for you being a teacher, explaining a subject and allowing others to expand it, you did not explain anything,

Is there a point in explaining these things, I guess everybody has his/her own explanations.

If my reaction is uncalled for, so be it. If not, i presented facts that deal with the subjects you presented.

Facts?:) What do you mean? You were not giving your opinion and your own views? I doubt your "facts" would be the facts of everybody.

Its great that you translated her post, once I can know it too:P I even found most of your reactions quite interesting and a good way to approach these matters, however the way you communicate it, cmon we are not school kids listening to the strict teacher:D

[4U2IMI8]

Originally Posted by Omeros

حين ترى ان كل الواقع يناقض ما في معتقداتك !
حين تسمع كل ما خفت ان تسمعه منذ الصغر!
حين ترى اسواء مصير مقبل ولا يسعك فعل شئ !
حين ترى المرض يصل لذروته !
حين ترى احب الافراد يبتعدون !
حين ترى كل من حولك يتحرك في حياته وانت وحدك الثابت !
حين ترى كابوسك حقيقة .....!!!
حين ترى عالمك كله محصور ببضعة كلمات !
حين لا ترى اي ضوء في الافق
حين تزول حتى احلامك ................................
ايحق لك ان تفقد الامل ؟
ان فقدت الامل ما تفعل ؟
ان كانت احدى الافكار باتت واقعا ...ماذا تفعل ؟
ان اصبح واقعا اكبر مخاوفك ماذا تفعل ؟
اتلتجئ لحلم اخر ؟
اتلتجئ لبلد او واقع اخر؟
اتترك ماضيك ومستقبلك؟
حين ترى ان باب حياتك سدة منافذه ....انك يا انسان ..حتى الله لا يساعدك ماذا تفقل ؟

Hope is hard to loose no matter how much one tries.
We all loose it at one time or another, we all get ready to give up and let go, but very very few of us do. The weak ones do, or maybe the more desperate ones.
There is always another hope if the one we have disappears. There are always alternatives to situations that may seem impassable.
Hearing others points of view sometimes gives hope to a dying one (if that makes any sense).
Rebounding from a desperate situation where all hope seems to be lost, gives a new, deeper, and more appreciative meaning to life.
If you get to a point where you think all hope is lost, get another opinion from a loved one or someone who cares, you’ll be surprised and shocked sometimes at the alternatives that you may have overlooked. (This is from personal experience)

[4U2IMI8]

Originally Posted by Stella

Facts?:) What do you mean? You were not giving your opinion and your own views? I doubt your "facts" would be the facts of everybody.

Its great that you translated her post, once I can know it too:P I even found most of your reactions quite interesting and a good way to approach these matters, however the way you communicate it, cmon we are not school kids listening to the strict teacher:D

When dealing with human emotions there are no facts, like you said Stella only opinions that apply to some people and not to others.
Dn't hesitate to let me know if u need anything translated, I'm trying to hone those skills, mutual benefits for both of us. (Omeros's posts require more time for the depth, and high linguistic levels of her posts).