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Default Let it be a changing day in your life ! - 3rd August 2008

What I want To share with you now can make the next few minutes the most significant few minutes for the rest of your lives .

"Positive thinking", people around the world have been talking about and trying to complicate and sophisticate it BUT once you understand it its completly SIMPLE.

Our brain is somehow a library of our perceptions and attitudes. The more your beliefs are positives the more mental and physical comfort you will get.

Everyone complain, everyone shout and swear when he/she is angry BUT what makes you special is the ability to say NO when everybody else is saying YES and the ability to change your perceptions toward what everyone else want you to see.

The easy way is to shout , to throw things, to put your rage on someone else , to think it's OVER...
BUT , the easiest is to make yourself and everybody around you hapy and comfortable.

Try to make your words and thoughts sweet maybe someday you will have to eat it :)

Let's start this process with few steps :)

1- REPLY to this thread by listing your frustations: make a list of all the things that have you felt frustrated about or that you would like to change.

2- list the positives: For each situation find everything you can think it's positive about the situation. ( If you can't find anything positive just list your frustrations and I will help in finding the positives:) )

3- maintain a positive attitued: This doesnt mean to paste a smile on your face ; it means to work at feeling grateful for what you already have , and for what you believe will come.

LETS TRY WITH THE SMALLEST THING. AND automatically it will turn out to be a HABIT :)

This time its not a thread for rate , nor to amke the largest number of views and replies , its what will change YOU :)

Create a new angle of your perceptions and thoughts !

" Whatever the mind can conceive and believe it can ACHIEVE"

Dont turn a blind eye to this , its your chance :)

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experience every emotion with its every detail...including pain... this what will make you stronger... not the positive thinking joke
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Xena :) Positive thinking does not forbid you from living your emotions and pain :) but helps to turn it out to be consider as a gain of experience not as a loss of failure :) positive thinking is an encouragement to continue no matter how much obstacles you will face , it makes PAIN,LOSS,FAILUR,DEATH and all the guises of life worth trying again :)
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Hye4Lebanon needs a Martini after this post
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I know it must be hard for everyone to believe it or even try it because I thought at first like " duhhh Bulls**** " but with time it became a habit and that is why i want everyone to reconsider the situation and think twice about it " fakkir marten :D"
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Xena :) Positive thinking does not forbid you from living your emotions and pain :) but helps to turn it out to be consider as a gain of experience not as a loss of failure :) positive thinking is an encouragement to continue no matter how much obstacles you will face , it makes PAIN,LOSS,FAILUR,DEATH and all the guises of life worth trying again :)
i thought this is how everyone reacted in life...excluding depressive victimized people... unless i'm mistaken....
so what's the big deal here again?
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i thought this is how everyone reacted in life...excluding depressive victimized people... unless i'm mistaken....
so what's the big deal here again?
Everyone accept the failure?everyone deal positevly with death ? everyone consider his loss a gain of experience? Everyone work with enthusiasm ?everyone start his day gratefully for what he has? everyone...everyone...everyone...
I think you are the only one who is not getting the Idea of this post :) I am not here to persuade you , I passed my idea :)
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i think every event every moment in our life bring to us something new and help us mature , even the saddest and most difficult times . it is when we live them intensely , when every experience become a lesson , it is when we take the time to analyse and make the best of it that we can later apreciate better our lives and what we have .

did you read the books of Dr Joseph Murphy ? sorry i have the french version : "comment reussir votre vie" and " la dynamique du bonheur" .

this is the basic idea sorry again but i will write it in french : La pensee est matiere vivante et creatrice . une attitude mentale positive , une conviction intime et vraie se concretisent toujours .Tout ce que nous imprimons avec force dans notre subconscient trouve son expression dans la realite concrete . Ce que vous desirez existe deja potentiellement en vous , sous forme d'idees , de pensee et de principes . Sachez comment impregner votre subconscient de vos convictions qui , si elle sont fermes et inebranlables , se realiserons et vous transformerons de victime en vainqueur .

les seules causes de l'insucces sont la peur ,l'incertitude , les croyances superstitieuses , les complexes d'inferiorite, la jalousie, la haine, la condamnation de soi , l'hostilite.... Les pensees negatives sucitent l'apparition d'emotions et de sentiments negatifs donnant alors naissance a toutes sortes de troubles , maladies , echecs et limitation .
votre attitude mentale est souveraine c'est elle qui determine votre experience et conditionne votre devenir .

"L'homme devient ce qu'il imagine et sent "
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Les pensees negatives sucitent l'apparition d'emotions et de sentiments negatifs donnant alors naissance a toutes sortes de troubles , maladies , echecs et limitation .
votre attitude mentale est souveraine c'est elle qui determine votre experience et conditionne votre devenir .

"L'homme devient ce qu'il imagine et sent "
Coralie that's Exactly the whole spirit of the positive thinking :) you got the idea :) hope you practice it ... and by the way it sounds like a very interesting book i will try to find it :) thank you coralie for the reply
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I tend to view people who always try to have a positive attitude towards everything as automated robots.
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