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The ugly side of feminism.
This has nothing to do with feminism.
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Feminists corrupted women more than they think.
The freedom and rights ( right to vote, access to education, work, financial and legal independance etc..)some take for granted nowadays where hard-fought by women - or as some call them feminists.
No corruption came from that, thank you very much.
All the sexist and radical comments done by some women like this so-called "article" should not be associated to the feminist movement.
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...every man looks for a quiet and relaxing life...
I know, especially Lebanese men:D It has to do something with their nerves:D

Observer, it seems this article still bugs you:D
Just out of curiousity, do you think men and women should be equals?
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ha ha thats cute, and he would answer? Yes I know sweety, I will put it away later... (never:D)
haha! That's happen if you treat him him "nicely". If I ever saw dirty smelly socks on the floor of my house... I would tell him "Dear, you forgot the socks". And if he dared to say "Oh yeah you're right, I wont forget them there" I wouldn't do anything else... The socks would remain there forever , I wouldn't touch them. At the end of the week maybe I would see my own house full of socks... but I would wait for the time he would say "Oh! I don't have any socks to dress on". Then, it would be time to say "Oh, how sad! Well you left them around so I thought you would wear them again. Sorry love, there are no clean sockers for you". Trust me, he wouldn't forget the lesson.

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Not all men are perfect () and just because he leaves his socks on the floor (and yes it is so disgusting) he still can be a good man.
A good man yes, but not a good husband. Because a man who leaves dirty socks around, is the same man who won't clean the floor because his wife will do it anyway.

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But of course you don't marry someone with something you can't tolerate. There are things you can ignore, things you can change, and things you just can't live with :D. Take a man who doesn't talk for example; sits there all the time so quiet with nothing to be said . So borning. If you marry that kind (not that you'd be attracted to him in the first place lol), you have to live with meditation forever .
hehehe Dalzi! Meditation forever!
Well yes, you're right, I agree with this part of your post.

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If he cleans the house, i'd have to clean it after him lol. So why trouble him? 7aram nta33bo 3al fade . Women are more talented when it comes to domestic duties lol.
Ok, you are right. They don't clean well a house, at least not so well as a woman, but they can still help. They can cook! Men can cook so well as a woman. And they can go to the supermarket as well.

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I really think that how our parents treated each other will influence us in our lives.
You can be sure of that. Usually the children who grew up with angry parents will be distrustful about marriage. I don't say they won't get married, but they will think twice before they say Yes to someone. That's life, Example is everything!

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I don't pretend to be a very tidy man but i promise that mother tought me how to do my bed and how to iron my clothes, lol, because she didn't had a daughter, she always wanted me to help her (eh, ma kenet mghannaj )
See? That's a good Mother!
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How about training him on the art of massage, manicure and pedicure, romantic dinners and the like. Would he have been a real man according to the feminists?
As I said, I believe men should help their wifes at home. That's their duty. A wife is not a slave and sometimes she needs to rest a bit too.
But I also think women should give all the love and caring they know and can to their husbands. They should wear pretty make up to make them proud, they should dress with elegance and try to please him when they are alone. The art of massage is a splendid idea!
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This has nothing to do with feminism.

The freedom and rights ( right to vote, access to education, work, financial and legal independance etc..)some take for granted nowadays where hard-fought by women - or as some call them feminists.
No corruption came from that, thank you very much.
All the sexist and radical comments done by some women like this so-called "article" should not be associated to the feminist movement.
Sorry but this is BS. feminism is one of the worst movements ever. You are not the first defender of feminism that I meet. I was involved in fierce debates with these feminists for a decade. I am currently not ready to repeat those debates because It won't do any good for many reasons.
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As I said, I believe men should help their wifes at home. That's their duty. A wife is not a slave and sometimes she needs to rest a bit too.
But I also think women should give all the love and caring they know and can to their husbands. They should wear pretty make up to make them proud, they should dress with elegance and try to please him when they are alone. The art of massage is a splendid idea!
hahaha. Ok. I agree. I never met a woman except that she loved the art of massage, manicure and pedicure and a nice romantic dinner. If it makes marriage healthier than I am all for it. We should pamper our lovely wives.
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Observer, it seems this article still bugs you:D
Just out of curiousity, do you think men and women should be equals?
Salome: They can not be equal. Only delusional people think that the only difference between men and women is in their sexual biology. Don't get me wrong. One woman could be better than 1000 men and vice versa, but they can never be equal the way it is portrayed today in western literature and social culture.
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haha! That's happen if you treat him him "nicely". If I ever saw dirty smelly socks on the floor of my house... I would tell him "Dear, you forgot the socks". And if he dared to say "Oh yeah you're right, I wont forget them there" I wouldn't do anything else... The socks would remain there forever , I wouldn't touch them. At the end of the week maybe I would see my own house full of socks... but I would wait for the time he would say "Oh! I don't have any socks to dress on". Then, it would be time to say "Oh, how sad! Well you left them around so I thought you would wear them again. Sorry love, there are no clean sockers for you". Trust me, he wouldn't forget the lesson.
Believe me it wont work, he would rather go and buy new socks after re-wearing some old dirty ones:D
And also I dont think your patience toward dirty socks on the floor will last that long, right?


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Salome: They can not be equal. Only delusional people think that the only difference between men and women is in their sexual biology. Don't get me wrong. One woman could be better than 1000 men and vice versa, but they can never be equal the way it is portrayed today in western literature and social culture.
I knew, I kneeeeeeeeewwwww!!! What shall I do with you guys?
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This is rediculous, you can not train a man as if he is your dog, you women are taking things too far, if a woman tries to train me I would break her neck and feed it to the dogs. Stop insulting our intelligence!
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Believe me it wont work, he would rather go and buy new socks after re-wearing some old dirty ones:D
And also I dont think your patience toward dirty socks on the floor will last that long, right?
I have an eternal patience


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This is rediculous, you can not train a man as if he is your dog, you women are taking things too far, if a woman tries to train me I would break her neck and feed it to the dogs. Stop insulting our intelligence!
No man will allow to be treated as a puppy. Some men won't be so honest as Abufijli but deep inside they all think the same. I don't blame them because I wouldn't like to be trained by any man. That's why it is so important to understand your future partner fully. A young man who sleeps on a messy room will be a messy husband. Like it or not! That's how it is. haha!
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A young man who sleeps on a messy room will be a messy husband. Like it or not! That's how it is. haha!
I know that there are exceptions, as I said Life is a big teacher, and anyone can change.

Abufijli, stop nagging and admit that your spouse is just better in everything, and your improvement is her merit:D
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