Quote:
Originally Posted by Salome  "O, beware, my lord, of jealousy;
It is the green-eyed monster which doth mock
The meat it feeds on; that cuckold lives in bliss
Who, certain of his fate, loves not his wronger;
But, O, what damned minutes tells he o'er
Who dotes, yet doubts, suspects, yet strongly loves!"
/Othello/
Are you the jealous type? How do you react when you have doubts about your gf/bf's?
Am interested to see how girls and boys deal differently (?) with this issue. |
jalousy is basically lack of self confidence .
no i am not the jalouse type . i am who i am my compagnion is who he is either we accept eachother as we are , in a relation based on sharing , trust , respect , comprehension , and of course love or the relation since the begining is wrong and is doomed to failure!
if my compagnion (BF, fiance, husband ) "look" elsewhere i will simply let him go . because this is a sign that we do not match, he do not have enough strong feelings toward me or the amount of respect required to seal this bound.
being jalous is doubting yourself , puting yourself in competion with your rival and this is very distructive . it will make you feel your not worth much and that the other have something more or better and thats not true .
either you believe in yourself or you dont the problem is not in you but in your compagnion or else he would have talked to you explained what he wants instead of looking elswhere .
once i am in a relation i will respect this bound and will respect and trust my compagion and will expect the same from his side the moment i feel he is cheating or flirting even just for "fun" i will let go it means it is over.... no need to ruin my time in this sort of foolish feelings "jalousy" it is worthless and very damaging to the person wellbeing .
Salome did you ever tried to monitor the expressions of a jalous person ? do you know that jalousy can make you look older ? it ruin your beauty and make you age faster it eats you from inside and poison your life . why do any one want to be the jalous type ?
7th July 2009
