Female Spite, unholy of holies ?

[Red Phoenix]

Poll
who holds a spite&grudge better:

-guys
-girls

some guys are known to hold a grudge like rambo did if someone pillages their villages, murders their family, steals their car or runs over their pet. and the grudge is over once the guy smacks the fellas responsible a couple of good times over their sins or he gets bored in the process.

now some girls on the other hand seem to hold magical grudges, or venom sack spites to be more exact, for no good reason at all. perhaps it was the way someone looked at them, breathed next to them or even the way someone existed on an even quantum level that seems to have offended them and set a chain of illiadic random spite loose hehe

guy nature and grudges aren't completely opposite since guys like to bash things by nature, but pretty girls and spites don't go well together especially if the divine spite is caused by some invisible pixie dust that the target victim disturbed by accident.

but that is just my opinion, i am merely noting a fleeting observation here that girls, whilst quite unfitting and lady like, when they pick up a grudge spite they do it in disproportional epic B movie drama scales

while any guy who holds a grudge of such an epic B nature would be immediately considered unstable, some girls do this lipstick vendetta with quick grace and refined finesse turning the stomachs of observers artistically upside down whenever one notes them doing their spite venting

so, is the superior form of female spite, if it even exists, a subject of esteem or disdain, a matter of myth or reality, a biproduct story of pride or that of a bitter spouseless bride?

i really don't know, it's just a question over just a fleeting observation ;)

i for one believe cute and venom don't go well hand in hand

but plz feel free to vote in the poll if u like b4 sharing ur stories about this catwalk of horrors with us :)

[Anny]

are you watching Greace or Cry Baby lol?

[LebanonUSA]

Women definitely hold a grudge. For me for example, I get mad and angry and my blood will boil over something. I'll forget all about it a few minutes later and be buddy buddy with the person as if nothing happened (and now, I'm not storying it in a box somewhere for later usage!).

Women, on the other hand, will tell you "nothing's wrong" and pretend that all is good and well. But God forbid you get into a small disagreement with her, then all Hell breaks loose. It's not just the wrath of "not putting the spoon in the sink", women will also bring out that box and dust it off, and open all kinds of crepe about past arguements that have been buried for several years, even if it's totally unrelated to the current arguement. For example, let's say the current arguement is about a spoon you forgot to put in the sink, a woman will also bring up that time in 1876 when you also didn't check if we needed eggs before going grocery shopping.

[Red Phoenix]

Originally Posted by Anny

are you watching Greace or Cry Baby lol?

hehe, no i'm not, should i ??

[Red Phoenix]

Originally Posted by LebanonUSA

Women definitely hold a grudge. For me for example, I get mad and angry and my blood will boil over something. I'll forget all about it a few minutes later and be buddy buddy with the person as if nothing happened (and now, I'm not storying it in a box somewhere for later usage!).

Women, on the other hand, will tell you "nothing's wrong" and pretend that all is good and well. But God forbid you get into a small disagreement with her, then all Hell breaks loose. It's not just the wrath of "not putting the spoon in the sink", women will also bring out that box and dust it off, and open all kinds of crepe about past arguements that have been buried for several years, even if it's totally unrelated to the current arguement. For example, let's say the current arguement is about a spoon you forgot to put in the sink, a woman will also bring up that time in 1876 when you also didn't check if we needed eggs before going grocery shopping.

amen to that

this deja vu horror story almost always feels deeply religious when we guys hear it again from someone else also..

[Kumari]

Originally Posted by LebanonUSA

Women definitely hold a grudge. For me for example, I get mad and angry and my blood will boil over something. I'll forget all about it a few minutes later and be buddy buddy with the person as if nothing happened (and now, I'm not storying it in a box somewhere for later usage!).

Women, on the other hand, will tell you "nothing's wrong" and pretend that all is good and well. But God forbid you get into a small disagreement with her, then all Hell breaks loose. It's not just the wrath of "not putting the spoon in the sink", women will also bring out that box and dust it off, and open all kinds of crepe about past arguements that have been buried for several years, even if it's totally unrelated to the current arguement. For example, let's say the current arguement is about a spoon you forgot to put in the sink, a woman will also bring up that time in 1876 when you also didn't check if we needed eggs before going grocery shopping.

LOL this is called exageration ya zalami..ino mich hal 2ad..

and concerning the question I dont feel it is a gender issue. It is a personalty trait.

[Orange angel]

Originally Posted by LebanonUSA

Women definitely hold a grudge. For me for example, I get mad and angry and my blood will boil over something. I'll forget all about it a few minutes later and be buddy buddy with the person as if nothing happened (and now, I'm not storying it in a box somewhere for later usage!).

Women, on the other hand, will tell you "nothing's wrong" and pretend that all is good and well. But God forbid you get into a small disagreement with her, then all Hell breaks loose. It's not just the wrath of "not putting the spoon in the sink", women will also bring out that box and dust it off, and open all kinds of crepe about past arguements that have been buried for several years, even if it's totally unrelated to the current arguement. For example, let's say the current arguement is about a spoon you forgot to put in the sink, a woman will also bring up that time in 1876 when you also didn't check if we needed eggs before going grocery shopping.

hahahahahaha well i admit we do not forget as easily as you guys do .... but then again, one should remember the past so as not to fall into the same mistakes again

Cheers!

[Dalzi]

What does gender have to do with holding grudges?! Some men are so mean and some women are so evil! Why can't we vote both?

[Red Phoenix]

Originally Posted by Dalzi

What does gender have to do with holding grudges?! Some men are so mean and some women are so evil! Why can't we vote both?

where is the suspense if we do that ?

[Red Phoenix]

Originally Posted by Orange angel

hahahahahaha well i admit we do not forget as easily as you guys do .... but then again, one should remember the past so as not to fall into the same mistakes again

Cheers!

lovely, until 'perfect' women start clashing over nothing and the family guy gets stuck in the middle for a long age of skirmishes ;)