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hello ,
1- have u ever dumped ur girlfriend (if u ever had one)???
2-what did u say ??
3- how did u do it???
4-do u prefer making her dump you beause u don't have the guts ?? or you don't want to hurt her ??
i always take the step number 4 cz it's by far the easiest one , but i don't know if it's because i am a chicken or bacause i really don't want to hurt her .......i guess i just don't wanna hurt her
to be honest i never tried anything else , maybe because when u are dumped once , u will get used to it , and it wont feel as bad as the one time u was dumped by surprise
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OI, what if u both dont wanna hurt each other?!?!?! What ull end u getting married to someone u hate!
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hello ,
1- have u ever dumped ur girlfriend (if u ever had one)???
2-what did u say ??
3- how did u do it???
4-do u prefer making her dump you beause u don't have the guts ?? or you don't want to hurt her ??
i always take the step number 4 cz it's by far the easiest one , but i don't know if it's because i am a chicken or bacause i really don't want to hurt her .......i guess i just don't wanna hurt her
to be honest i never tried anything else , maybe because when u are dumped once , u will get used to it , and it wont feel as bad as the one time u was dumped by surprise
Just say that you don't love her anymore but you once did and that feeling is gone and ask her, does she really want to stay with someone who doesn't love her back?

And say to her, you dont deserve her because you don't deserve someone who loves you but you don't love her back.

Or be a man and give her the right reason why you are dumping her and dont tell her the reason why you did go out with her in the first place, she doesnt need to know.
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well anny , did u fell in love with every guy you went out with ???
because honestly ana "mestaghreb" the number of times the word "love" occured in your reply
i think it's just that the definition of love btefrou2 men nes la nes .....
why do u think that she loves me ??? nshalla la2
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Just say that you don't love her anymore but you once did and that feeling is gone and ask her, does she really want to stay with someone who doesn't love her back?
that's pretty much like dumping her , and it will probably hurt her and she will hate me (wich doesn't really matter to me ) but she will get hurt , and i don't like to be responsible for anyone's pain
my strategy is safer if u ask me , it actually depends on the girl and the nature of the relationship
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OI, what if u both dont wanna hurt each other?!?!?! What ull end u getting married to someone u hate!
ba33adet ktir , marriage is one thing and going out with someone is something else
if i don't win loto ma betjawwaz
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well anny , did u fell in love with every guy you went out with ???
because honestly ana "mestaghreb" the number of times the word "love" occured in your reply
i think it's just that the definition of love btefrou2 men nes la nes .....
why do u think that she loves me ??? nshalla la2
anyway about the thread's subject

that's pretty much like dumping her , and it will probably hurt her and she will hate me (wich doesn't really matter to me ) but she will get hurt , and i don't like to be responsible for anyone's pain
my strategy is safer if u ask me , it actually depends on the girl and the nature of the relationship

Seirously, if you dont love someone, why do you go out with them in the first place and I am talking only about a relationship. And yes, I felt love everytime I was in a relationship. Otherwise, I stay friends with them, I ignore the fact that they like me and keep the friendship, not the relationship.

And so what if she feels pain, who doesnt feel that when they are being dumped? Dont try to make her dump you because no one is that stupid to belive your ****. You want to dump her the right way, you should just tell her that you dont want to be with her, you dont have to use the word love or anything. Be honest and just tell her that you dont want to be with her and dont give her the wrong reasons, tell her really why, she deserves to know. One of your reasons are that you are not ready to go further in your relationship like she wants to or that you are really a jerk and you did go out with her just to use her and have fun with a pretty girl at the time. But belive me, she will never talk to you again but she will understand that you dont worth it and she deserves alot better.

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ba33adet ktir , marriage is one thing and going out with someone is something else
if i don't win loto ma betjawwaz
How old are you? Lets wait till you will lose part of your hair and that you wont be that attractive and you will be feeling really lonely since everyone of your friends will be married, come and tell me if you will get married or not.

Otherwise, wait till you are really old and lonely and everyone will have grandkids except you because you were flirting here and there with the air ;p dont come and cry on my shoulder, coz I wont have pitty
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If Anyone Volunteers to be my GF I will Graciously Dump Her Here and Now in Front of Everyone
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Seirously, if you dont love someone, why do you go out with them in the first place and I am talking only about a relationship. And yes, I felt love everytime I was in a relationship. Otherwise, I stay friends with them, I ignore the fact that they like me and keep the friendship, not the relationship.
so u love ppl before knowing them ???
if someone eja t7ashar fikeh , and asked u out , ever for a silly cup of coffee and u agreed this means that u started to love him ejbareh ???
or u have to be friends with him and know him for god knows how much , and then falling in love with him while u are friends and wish that he asks you out ???

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And so what if she feels pain, who doesnt feel that when they are being dumped? Dont try to make her dump you because no one is that stupid to belive your ****. You want to dump her the right way, you should just tell her that you dont want to be with her, you dont have to use the word love or anything. Be honest and just tell her that you dont want to be with her and dont give her the wrong reasons, tell her really why, she deserves to know. One of your reasons are that you are not ready to go further in your relationship like she wants to or that you are really a jerk and you did go out with her just to use her and have fun with a pretty girl at the time. But belive me, she will never talk to you again but she will understand that you dont worth it and she deserves alot better.
no , i know someone and we are friends now (on msn only) but we talk all the time and she tells me everything about her new bf and life and trusts me ........
i cant talk about the others because i didn't have 100 relationships in my life ta a3mel statistics , but i can say that i don't really care if my ex thinks that i am a jerk , all seperated couples think of their ex-bf/gf jerks

anyway , , u just have to start an argument and stop contacting her and she'll probably not try to call me since el 7a2 3layeh , and sooner or later she'll tell me the good news and make the phone drama .......or like it happened once , la ana 7kita wala hiyeh 7ekyetneh ,w mere2 el wa2et , after a while i realized that it's over lol , once i saw her with someone bt i don't know if he's a friend or bf la2eno keno group , but i felt good about myself ......

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One of your reasons are that you are not ready to go further in your relationship like she wants to or that you are really a jerk and you did go out with her just to use her and have fun with a pretty girl at the time. But belive me, she will never talk to you again but she will understand that you dont worth it and she deserves alot better.
most of the girls want to have fun too.........msh ghalat
of course some of them are more serious than the others , and want to meet the parents looool (never happened to me but with friends)

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And so what if she feels pain, who doesnt feel that when they are being dumped?
i know , but that doen't mean that i like dumping ppl.......it's a weird process that i don't like to go through , at all
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How old are you? Lets wait till you will lose part of your hair and that you wont be that attractive and you will be feeling really lonely since everyone of your friends will be married, come and tell me if you will get married or not.

Otherwise, wait till you are really old and lonely and everyone will have grandkids except you because you were flirting here and there with the air ;p dont come and cry on my shoulder, coz I wont have pitty
i am 21
and i am not a playboy , lesh hek btefhami kel shi ghalat
i don't flirt to have fun or try to deceive girls , i just go out , and after a while take a break
i just don't feel like getting married la2eno ana w 21 and i cant sleep most of the nights because of the things i am worried about bteji t2oulili marriage , and i don't like to add one thing to the list of the things i am worried about by hurting the girl , and yes believe me i will not feel good about myself if i hurt someone and it happened before for something much much sillier than this one , and i wasn't able to rest for weeks
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