Does he need to be rich?

[shadow1]

Originally Posted by Nayla

Well Salome, I'm not so greedy
Enough money to have a very beautiful house, a beautiful car, nice furniture, a very good school for the children
Enough money to go out from time to time and to travel to different places..
At least, having the same level of life I had with my parents.

After you manage to obtain these things, it's so gracious of you to take the man bidahr l bay3a.

[Salome]

Originally Posted by shadow1

So you have been preaching to us about the virtues of a woman paying and you never paid?

See my reply above to Dalzi...of course I pay too, I invite him also for all kinds of occassions...

Well the guy paying in the first dates it is classy indeed...I don't know who likes pushy girls in this sense, who asks you out and pay you in the first date etc... it reminds me of those lesbians I see every day at work grrrr

How considerate of you, yeah it surely means a lot to the man pampering her with gifts all the time, like that blondie she looked so super posh suddenly not common anymore

No you don't need all this mascara...you can't measure love in money

[Dalzi]

Originally Posted by Salome

Even if I was married I wouldn't take money from my husband for my personal spendings...no wayyyy...I have my own salary, can support myself....

When you marry you become one; what's his is yours and what's yours is his; there's no mine and yours.

I hate to see a woman working at home, working outside, and raising children all at once. If you can't take time off when you need to, then don't marry at all.

[Salome]

Originally Posted by Dalzi

When you marry you become one; what's his is yours and what's yours is his; there's no mine and yours.

That's a strange view...I mean sure you can have a common budget....but still both of you have your own salary and a part of that you are spending on yourself...so I dont see the sense in going for asking money for shoes from my man when I myself have the money for it...

On the other hand, an example, I know women who just cant stop spending money on all kinds of useless things and thus spend their whole salary in few days and then they indeed go to their man and ask for money....now shall that poor man give her money to spend on more stupid things? Just because she is her wife he is ought to finance her stupidity?

I hate to see a woman working at home, working outside, and raising children all at once. If you can't take time off when you need to, then don't marry at all.

We can continue this topic in my marriage thread if you want...you shouldn't worry, I think you also believe in multitasking....otherwise probably you know am not planning to get married...any soon:D and the lil devils really can wait, am enjoying life now:D

[Dalzi]

Originally Posted by Salome

That's a strange view...

What's so strange about it? Haven't you heard of that before? That's our culture.

I mean sure you can have a common budget....but still both of you have your own salary and a part of that you are spending on yourself...so I dont see the sense in going for asking money for shoes from my man when I myself have the money for it...

I have my own salary but he doesn't That's just the way it works with us. What a woman earns is for herself, but what a man earns is for his family. Nice logic eh?

On the other hand, an example, I know women who just cant stop spending money on all kinds of useless things and thus spend their whole salary in few days and then they indeed go to their man and ask for money....now shall that poor man give her money to spend on more stupid things? Just because she is her wife he is ought to finance her stupidity?

Why marry that kind in the first place? byestehal, maybe he should've given himself more time to know if she's responsible or not.

We can continue this topic in my marriage thread if you want...you shouldn't worry, I think you also believe in multitasking....otherwise probably you know am not planning to get married...any soon:D and the lil devils really can wait, am enjoying life now:D

I'm not talking about myself here. But since you mentioned multitasking, I can tell you hell no I ain't multitasking nothing. Yeah, and there are no worries at all.

[BOILER]

Why should a couple marry if they can't afford a decent life to their children?
leish baddon yijno 3layon?
Shu zanbon?

Love is not everything especially if there is no hope for the future.

[BOILER]

So my question is to the guys here, the girl whom you will love does she need to be rich? Is this a critera you consider anyway?

Is there a difference in your criteria between when a girl is "just" a girlfriend or when you are planning to marry her?

[Xena]

Originally Posted by BOILER

Why should a couple marry if they can't afford a decent life to their children?
leish baddon yijno 3layon?
Shu zanbon?

Love is not everything especially if there is no hope for the future.

get married but don't have children right away! easy

[BOILER]

Originally Posted by Xena

get married but don't have children right away! easy

How much will you wait?

This is also depends on your age when you get married.

As for me, whether I'm rich or not, I don't want children right away.

[Danny Z]

So my question is to the guys here, the girl whom you will love does he dad need to be rich? Is this a critera you consider anyway?

Is there a difference in your criteria between when a girl is "just" a girlfriend or when you are planning to marry her and the dad can ditch the big bucks?