Does he need to be rich?

[Salome]

Originally Posted by Xena

By definition a prostitute isn't a woman who has sex with lots of men... it's a woman who gets paid for it... A woman who wants a rich man is actually a woman looking for an employer... you know if you save yourself until marriage if you play the pure girl etc etc you'll get a good price!

Now to answer your question, i'm not a prostitute...

Interesting perspective, the description is a bit harsh but I just can't argue with it:D

[orange infection]

Originally Posted by Salome

ah you innocent, never heard about men caring for (only) how rich the girl is???

bent khaleh , was engaged to someone and was helping him to pay the money to build their future house , he was deceiving her and stole her money (not that much , just her monthly salary for a couple of years) , so yes i know ppl who only care about the girl's money , but i consider the chance to meet a girl ,who will actually make the guy benefit from her wealth, really low.
even if she's rich , and i like to become rich , i don't really expect anything from her . i consider bent khaleh as a really really stupid girl who , se2abit , have a greatly stupid mother too , it's not something common
girls are usually stupid in many things , but not when it comes to money , they have expectations
if it was for another girl , other than bent khaleh , she would have left the guy because of the cheap stupid gift he got her on their engagement night
btw , she is a beautiful girl too

Originally Posted by Salome

.I think those very traditional times are over, and am sure not all girls are like the way you described them

will you hit on a man ???
take him out to dinner in your car??? and pay for the dinner yourself ??and romance him while he smiles and pretend to be shy ??
if u will do that then i think those traditional times are over :)

[orange infection]

Originally Posted by Orange angel

of course the first few months, he paid, becoz we were getting to know eachother and he's a gentleman.

la7za shway , mrs non traditional
when you were getting to know each other he paid but when that was finished ballashto bel 50/50
okay now why was he paying ??? i cant find the relationship between getting to know each other and splitting dinner costs
so when the guy pays it helps you to get to know each other ????
and you said it , he's a gentleman because he used to pay , so gentlemen pay for ladies dinners
that's a very not traditional thought

[Lebanesegirl]

I never cared about money and never will! This is me.

I don't want to marry a Millionaire and I don't want to marry someone who's homeless! ya3ne la tekho wala kserlo mokho!! An average life is everything I ask for!

To answer ur question No he doesn't need to be rich! bas akid I don't mind if he was! It's all about Love and respect!

[Dalzi]

Originally Posted by Salome

The lady can pay sometimes especially if they are in a serious relationship and not like just dating each others. Why would that make her partner look sissy?? You are strange:D

If you're with your husband, friends, neighbours...etc nothing wrong with you paying; but if a guy is taking you out on a date, you're gonna pay! Holy Lord I wouldn't even think of it so as not to make him feel insulted!

Am I too old-fashioned? Yes of course.

[Salome]

Originally Posted by orange infection

will you hit on a man ???
take him out to dinner in your car??? and pay for the dinner yourself ??and romance him while he smiles and pretend to be shy ??
if u will do that then i think those traditional times are over :)

For you it is either black or white?:D Nothing in between? There must be some gray spots somewhere...

Originally Posted by Dalzi

If you're with your husband, friends, neighbours...etc nothing wrong with you paying; but if a guy is taking you out on a date, you're gonna pay! Holy Lord I wouldn't even think of it so as not to make him feel insulted!

Am I too old-fashioned? Yes of course.

I wasn't talking about a date lol....when getting to know each others, on a date yes the man pays, I would also wonder a bit if it wasn't like that...it is just a gesture, I hope it is not old fashioned, or is it? And then later on when they are a couple, maybe we can call it a romantic dinner night out...hmm well it never happened at least with me that I would have paid...

So by paying I meant rather sharing the costs....and I find that utterly dull when the man finances the gf (mainly on clothes and shoes:D)...or buy her presents regularly as an "expression" of love....this just can not be honest...you don't need to prove your love with money and expensive gifts, a look, a hug, a kiss speaks much more clearly!!

ps: I just can't stand not sharing my experience today:D:D well whom we see today in a shopping mall??...let's say a "high official" from a Gulf country embassy with his mistress!!! We know he has a wife and two kids...and voila he goes on the open with his super young super sexy blondie (all b**bs and butt out) on a shopping cruise...I don't wonder for a minute from where she has all that expensive stuffs on her...

[Akhwat belmarra]

Originally Posted by Salome

l don't know if your story is true, but it is so similar to the ones I get in e-mails:D
So in your place I would worry what is her motivation...I wouldn't sign anything, you may never know in what you are getting yourself into.

Love has to be separated from money, because money in general corrupts the minds (respect to exceptions)...now it also doesn't mean that you or your partner shouldn't pursue a nice career and earn well, just that money shall never be a way to measure someone.

I’m not here to entertain people with unreal stories, or to prove anything to anyone. The story is mine; maybe the emails you’re getting are referring to me.
Love and money can co exist fine if the people involved are sincere about what they feel for each other.
I’m very well off on my own, and don’t need her money anyways. It came as surprise to me that she’s wealthy to this extent. Neither one of us is corrupted by the money, and we will never be. Fate has dealt his hand and made our roads cross; we have become one in every single aspect. Now we’re enjoying our lives the best we can as two mature people who understand love, and understand our responsibilities towards each other.

[Dalzi]

Originally Posted by Salome

I wasn't talking about a date lol....when getting to know each others, on a date yes the man pays, I would also wonder a bit if it wasn't like that...it is just a gesture, I hope it is not old fashioned, or is it? And then later on when they are a couple, maybe we can call it a romantic dinner night out...hmm well it never happened at least with me that I would have paid...

It is also Islamic :P lol

So by paying I meant rather sharing the costs....and I find that utterly dull when the man finances the gf (mainly on clothes and shoes:D)...or buy her presents regularly as an "expression" of love....this just can not be honest...you don't need to prove your love with money and expensive gifts, a look, a hug, a kiss speaks much more clearly!!

Yes, it's kinda low to take money from a man who isn't your husband. Tfeh. Actually, it's hard enough to accept being 'financed' by someone even if he's your husband. I have to come to terms with accepting that.... If you can't 'feel' independent, they're you're gonna feel jailed even if he uses notes for tissue paper.

ps: I just can't stand not sharing my experience today:D:D well whom we see today in a shopping mall??...let's say a "high official" from a Gulf country embassy with his mistress!!! We know he has a wife and two kids...and voila he goes on the open with his super young super sexy blondie (all b**bs and butt out) on a shopping cruise...I don't wonder for a minute from where she has all that expensive stuffs on her...

Shopping with a man isn't a good idea. They're not patient enough to take their time examining little details that you would. My uncle runs in the shopping centre; his wife would be in the first shop, he's at the other end of the mall.

[shadow1]

Originally Posted by Salome

I wasn't talking about a date lol....when getting to know each others, on a date yes the man pays, I would also wonder a bit if it wasn't like that...it is just a gesture, I hope it is not old fashioned, or is it? And then later on when they are a couple, maybe we can call it a romantic dinner night out...hmm well it never happened at least with me that I would have paid...

So you have been preaching to us about the virtues of a woman paying and you never paid?
Besides what is the logic behind a man paying "when getting to know each others".? Is it like I said before the men must pay for prospecting costs just in case no Gold is found?

So by paying I meant rather sharing the costs....and I find that utterly dull when the man finances the gf (mainly on clothes and shoes:D)...or buy her presents regularly as an "expression" of love....this just can not be honest...you don't need to prove your love with money and expensive gifts, a look, a hug, a kiss speaks much more clearly!!

Of course you dont but if you do it's all the better.One thing you are forgetting here that a gift means more to those who give it than to those who receive it.

ps: I just can't stand not sharing my experience today:D:D well whom we see today in a shopping mall??...let's say a "high official" from a Gulf country embassy with his mistress!!! We know he has a wife and two kids...and voila he goes on the open with his super young super sexy blondie (all b**bs and butt out) on a shopping cruise...I don't wonder for a minute from where she has all that expensive stuffs on her...

Lucky man. He can afford to keep a wife and a mistress. W ni7na anja2 3eysheen.

[Salome]

Originally Posted by Dalzi

It is also Islamic :P lol

don't know how religion comes here anyway, on the first dates it is just not gentlemen if not the guy pays...but as I said later on, it shall be more cool, there is nothing wrong with if the girl invites sometimes... (except for romantic dinner nights out, that is strictly reserved for the man!!!:D)

And someone mentioned the 50/50 paying, now cmoooon are you guys serious??? That is sooooo weird to say the least, you don't do that in a restaurant with your partner...you do that max with your friends that you put the bill together

Yes, it's kinda low to take money from a man who isn't your husband. Tfeh. Actually, it's hard enough to accept being 'financed' by someone even if he's your husband. I have to come to terms with accepting that.... If you can't 'feel' independent, they're you're gonna feel jailed even if he uses notes for tissue paper.

Even if I was married I wouldn't take money from my husband for my personal spendings...no wayyyy...I have my own salary, can support myself....

Shopping with a man isn't a good idea. They're not patient enough to take their time examining little details that you would. My uncle runs in the shopping centre; his wife would be in the first shop, he's at the other end of the mall.

Interesting reflection on the story, you grabbed the most important part:D
It is very true in general for men...so maybe I am lucky to have someone who is verrrryy patient in shopping considering common male standards:D What love makes poor men endure:D