Does he need to be rich?

[freedom4ever]

Originally Posted by Salome

It depends on your preferences, do you prefer the girls who want to enjoy diamonds only or someone who appreciate you the way you are?

Actually if she is planning to enjoy she cant

Now why are people so hasty about marriage?? If you are in your 20s you think it is too late?? Hell no, you don't even need to get married for Gods sake:D

I am not afraid about marriage, personally i do prefer to get married before getting 30, i would like to enjoy some "Youth" Days with my wife, some travel, before getting into family stuff.
Raising my children at a young will be easier than raising them while i am 50.

But the question am I able to do this.

How rich?:D Are there certain criterias, like a list maybe he has to have this or that, or X amount of money etc...

Bill gates rich
Walid Bin Talal Rich

Or Ghandi Rich

Being rich is different, Some has reach pocket, the others rich brain, ...etc

The lady can pay sometimes especially if they are in a serious relationship and not like just dating each others. Why would that make her partner look sissy?? You are strange:D

It is a part of sharing life when the girl start paying when the couple is in a serious relationship.
She should be responsible as much as the guy is.

I agree first the guy should be paying, but when you are for 3-4 months dating and going out, and the guy still paying, he should think seriously about what he is doing, specially if she is a working woman.

[Salome]

Originally Posted by freedom4ever

Actually if she is planning to enjoy she cant

ah forget diamonds, you should be careful with the girls who are dazzled by that stupid stone, unless she wants to buy herself the diamonds she is free to do that

I am not afraid about marriage, personally i do prefer to get married before getting 30, i would like to enjoy some "Youth" Days with my wife, some travel, before getting into family stuff.
Raising my children at a young will be easier than raising them while i am 50.

But the question am I able to do this.

To enjoy such time with your partner you need to be married?? Why don't you spend some time together (living together) to get to know more each others before deciding for marriage...
Anyway I surely want to enjoy life till I am young meaning before 30...I have many plans, travels etc...what one can not do with a family...Marrying after 30 these days is not late at all, and actually you see ever more men in their 50s even having babies...

It is a part of sharing life when the girl start paying when the couple is in a serious relationship.
She should be responsible as much as the guy is.

I agree first the guy should be paying, but when you are for 3-4 months dating and going out, and the guy still paying, he should think seriously about what he is doing, specially if she is a working woman.

If she has her own salary then of course it is not an issue if she pays sometimes, she does the shopping sometimes etc.....However if the man has a bigger salary then most of the times anyway he will pay

[Orange angel]

Originally Posted by Salome

To enjoy such time with your partner you need to be married?? Why don't you spend some time together (living together) to get to know more each others before deciding for marriage...

Don't forget you're not living in lebanon, the "living together" part is relevant for you, whereas here, it's kinda hard, especially if you don't wana get into conflict with your parents and most of society... that's why many young men and women resort to marriage...

[Salome]

Originally Posted by Orange angel

Don't forget you're not living in lebanon, the "living together" part is relevant for you, whereas here, it's kinda hard, especially if you don't wana get into conflict with your parents and most of society... that's why many young men and women resort to marriage...

I know, but all revolutions have to start somewhere:D

It was discussed somewhere else so its off topic here, but you just can't marry someone seriously whom you don't even know well!!! I mean you have to live with him to get the whole picture, since you are committing your whole life to him. That is if one believes in sacred marriage.

[Orange angel]

Originally Posted by Salome

I know, but all revolutions have to start somewhere:D

It was discussed somewhere else so its off topic here, but you just can't marry someone seriously whom you don't even know well!!! I mean you have to live with him to get the whole picture, since you are committing your whole life to him. That is if one believes in sacred marriage.

Yes, i totally agree with you... but as you said it's off topic.
Anyway, i agree with what Freedom4ever said:

I am not afraid about marriage, personally i do prefer to get married before getting 30, i would like to enjoy some "Youth" Days with my wife, some travel, before getting into family stuff.
Raising my children at a young will be easier than raising them while i am 50.

Marriage during youth is wonderful, you get to build a home as well as raising your kidz while you still have your full energy...

[Salome]

Originally Posted by Orange angel

Marriage during youth is wonderful , you get to build a home as well as raising your kidz while you still have your full energy...

Is rather scary like hell I think everybody shall have the chance to enjoy life till they can, before the lil devils come and ruin everything

[Orange angel]

Originally Posted by Salome

Is rather scary like hell I think everybody shall have the chance to enjoy life till they can, before the lil devils come and ruin everything

Who said you can't enjoy life with the lil devils , sure they're a little tiresome, but i can assure you their moms see them as angels
Aslan nobody said that you've got to give birth as soon as you get married... you can easily spend a year or 2, just enjoying "free" married life....

[Nayla]

Originally Posted by shadow1

I agree. if you marry a rich man you can afford to find saomeone you love a lot more easily.

You're giving me very evil ideas shads hehe

Especially now with only poor people going to church or jeme3.

Do you think that only poor people are religious ? or religious people become poor by the time?

It's a material world we live in. You might as well include the whole wardrobe. This way you'd never feel lonely ever.

ma hek?

[Xena]

Originally Posted by Salome

So my question is to the girls here, the man whom you will love does he need to be rich? Is this a critera you consider anyway?

Is there a difference in your criteria between when a guy is "just" a boyfriend or when you are planning to marry him?

By definition a prostitute isn't a woman who has sex with lots of men... it's a woman who gets paid for it... A woman who wants a rich man is actually a woman looking for an employer... you know if you save yourself until marriage if you play the pure girl etc etc you'll get a good price!

Now to answer your question, i'm not a prostitute...

[Nayla]

Originally Posted by Salome

How rich?:D Are there certain criterias, like a list maybe he has to have this or that, or X amount of money etc...

Well Salome, I'm not so greedy
Enough money to have a very beautiful house, a beautiful car, nice furniture, a very good school for the children
Enough money to go out from time to time and to travel to different places..
At least, having the same level of life I had with my parents.