Does he need to be rich?

[Salome]

Originally Posted by orange infection

no he doesn't , he just need to pretend being rich

That would turn out very soon...or the girl can pretend to be rich too (or something she is not:D) so at least they deserve each others:D

[orange infection]

Originally Posted by Salome

That would turn out very soon...or the girl can pretend to be rich too (or something she is not:D) so at least they deserve each others:D

men aymtin the guy cares if the girl is rich or not ??? it's not like she's going to pay for the dinners even if she's rich
she just need to be hot and "presentable" , enno ma tjarresnneh eddem as7abeh when she talks

[freemind]

Originally Posted by orange infection

men aymtin the guy cares if the girl is rich or not ??? it's not like she's going to pay for the dinners even if she's rich
she just need to be hot and "presentable" , enno ma tjarresnneh eddem as7abeh when she talks

Says who 7abibe? what about women's rights? its pretty sexist what you're saying, and doesn't conform to me either. Who says a guy should be paying? lol

If a girl pays for me, i'd really fall for her then, that would be true love(whatever that means)

[orange infection]

Originally Posted by freemind

If a girl pays for me, i'd really fall for her then, that would be true love(whatever that means)

me 2 , but that's not going to happen
as for the guy paying , please 7aj t2elleh sexist w khbar
some things never change , the first thing to care about in a girl is her looks while the first thing to care about in a guy is his wealth
the guy is always expected to make the first move and not the girl , the guy is the one who usually pays , the wife is the one who usually cleans the house

that's not sexist , that's just the way it is
i would also like some things to change , and i would really love a girl to pay once , it would be a nice gesture
but i am not counting on it and i really don't mind a traditional relationship where i pay for the dinner and try to get some in my car and she eats the dinner and avoid my hands in my car

[shadow1]

Originally Posted by freemind

Who says a guy should be paying? lol

The rules of chivalry dictate that a man must pay even if he has to borrow the money from the bank. It's a question of honour and dignity. Back in the good old days men used to have duels over the girl they love and lose their lives so she can go for the surviving one. Nowdays things are done differently. Men just log on facebook and check out her girlfriends if she gives them the flick. So it's not surprising that men are more accepting of having a girl pay for them. And they are not even gigolos.

If a girl pays for me, i'd really fall for her then, that would be true love(whatever that means)

There is always the possibility of her sending a subtle message by paying as in " I paid for your dinner and mine so I owe you nothing, buzz off". The way to know in case of uncertainty is to ask her for coffee after the meal. If her excuse is lame then you know zamatet mni l daf3.

[freemind]

Originally Posted by orange infection

the wife is the one who usually cleans the house

You're gonna get some lecturing from Salome and co. for this one. LOL

i pay for the dinner and try to get some in my car and she eats the dinner and avoid my hands in my car

I'm a poor guy, go figure; i know its pretty hard to do; but in a world so tough you gotta be tough my dear.

[Orange angel]

Originally Posted by freemind

Says who 7abibe? what about women's rights? its pretty sexist what you're saying, and doesn't conform to me either. Who says a guy should be paying? lol

If a girl pays for me, i'd really fall for her then, that would be true love(whatever that means)

For once, i totaly agree with you
lol i can't believe the amount of traditionalism i'm seeing in this thread!!

as for the guy paying , please 7aj t2elleh sexist w khbar
some things never change , the first thing to care about in a girl is her looks while the first thing to care about in a guy is his wealth
the guy is always expected to make the first move and not the girl , the guy is the one who usually pays , the wife is the one who usually cleans the house

that's not sexist , that's just the way it is
i would also like some things to change , and i would really love a girl to pay once , it would be a nice gesture
but i am not counting on it and i really don't mind a traditional relationship where i pay for the dinner and try to get some in my car and she eats the dinner and avoid my hands in my car

There is always the possibility of her sending a subtle message by paying as in " I paid for your dinner and mine so I owe you nothing, buzz off". The way to know in case of uncertainty is to ask her for coffee after the meal. If her excuse is lame then you know zamatet mni l daf3.

I mean, what the hell is that???? is dating some sort of prostitution??? you pay for her dinner and in return she has to flirt with you??? where's the respect??
it's so lame to say that women never pay !I for example share everything 50/50 with my fiance, sometimes i pay, sometimes he does, we buy eachother gifts an treats, enno 3ade. of course the first few months, he paid, becoz we were getting to know eachother and he's a gentleman. it's funny but, unlike what you guyz are saying, he never made me feel that he was expecting anything in return... it wasn't some sort of trade... things happened naturally, becoz we both felt like it, not becoz he bought me dinner or whatever...

Honestly guyz, ktir bechi3 hal traditionalism...

Cheers

[Salome]

Originally Posted by orange infection

men aymtin the guy cares if the girl is rich or not ??? it's not like she's going to pay for the dinners even if she's rich
she just need to be hot and "presentable" , enno ma tjarresnneh eddem as7abeh when she talks

ah you innocent, never heard about men caring for (only) how rich the girl is???

Just hot and presentable?? yalla if that is your standard then you better buy yourself a barbie doll, she won't even nag or do anything particular, she would just sit neatly and nicely:D

Although men pay most of the time, I find it cute when I pay sometimes for my man, or surprise him with something, a little present etc....I think those very traditional times are over, and am sure not all girls are like the way you described them

[freemind]

Originally Posted by shadow1

The rules of chivalry dictate that a man must pay even if he has to borrow the money from the bank. It's a question of honour and dignity. Back in the good old days men used to have duels over the girl they love and lose their lives so she can go for the surviving one. Nowdays things are done differently. Men just log on facebook and check out her girlfriends if she gives them the flick. So it's not surprising that men are more accepting of having a girl pay for them. And they are not even gigolos.

There is always the possibility of her sending a subtle message by paying as in " I paid for your dinner and mine so I owe you nothing, buzz off". The way to know in case of uncertainty is to ask her for coffee after the meal. If her excuse is lame then you know zamatet mni l daf3.

In the first place, there was no reason that men felt so financialy concerned; a woman has a job nowadays, at times she has a job better-payed than the guy; there is no reason why the guy should be paying, unless she's a cheap girl he's looking to buy off.

I was once told that being low on money is a turn off though; i know sex will push her down the cliff in the end as much as it'll push me.

[Salome]

Can we also get back to my loads of questions posted earlier?:D

Originally Posted by Salome

Now above he being rich would it be a criteria for you that he is equally or even higher educated than you? Meaning does he need to be your equivalent or above your social status concerning wealth and intellectuals?

And how about that when he is rich but not educated or lower educated than you, would his wealth compensate his intellectual shortcomings?

And how about those guys who are extremely intelligent and educated but still poor?