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Originally Posted by fado  Hopefully by the time u have kids ur situation would have improved and u can afford jam and butter 
All i am saying is that if im in love with a guy i would never let him go if he has it bad financially, we would just find a way to improve our economy. |
Find that way! If you can find it and you know you can grow together, then fine. But if you can clearly see that there is no chance in hell your kids would eat other than olives, then don't even think of going there. There's something called reality; you can't live on hopes and dreams. I'm not saying he's gotta be loaded; he just needs a good sized brain and you're fine.
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I mean what if ur with this guy (not a husband) that u love, he has a good job and he gets fired or whatever and goes bankrupcy would u just turn ur back on him and leave? Or would u help him?
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Of course not, together through thick and thin; you never know what life might throw at you! But at least you gotta have the mind and persistance not to give up for the sake of your children at least. Feeling responsible is key here, if you feel the burden of responsiblity, you'll manage to find a way if God be willing of course.
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(i live in lala land i know 
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