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In your opinion is chastity still a value? Especially concerning the girls, is their chastity still considered as a value to be preserved till their marriage?
If you are a guy, would you mind marrying a girl who is non-virgin, does it make a difference anyway?
Basically I know this is not an issue anymore, girls and guys (from all backgrounds) alike dont preserve their virginity till marriage, still society seems to hold some taboos about it, and at least pretend this is still a value to preserve especially for girls.
I wonder if it is a taboo to discuss about it, and whether it holds still any values?
ديـار ليـلى إذ نحلّ بهـا معـا
وإذ نحن منها بالمودّة نطمـع
إلى الله أشكو لا إلى الناس حبها
ولا بد من شكوى حبيب يروّع
ألا تتقيـن الله فيمـن قتلـتـه
فأمسى إليكم خاشعـا يتضـرّع
فإن يك جثمـاني بأرض سواكم
فإن فـؤادي عندك الدهر أجمع
ألا تتقين الله في قتـل عاشـق
لـه كبـد حرّى عليـك تقطّـع
فيا ربّ حببنـي إليهـا وأعطني
المـودّة منها أنت تعطي وتمنع
وإلا فصبّرني وإن كنت كارهـا
فإني بها يـا ذا المعارج مولـع
تمتّعْتُ منها يوم بانـوا بنظـرة
وهل عاشـقٌ من نظـرةٍ يتمتّع
ديـار ليـلى إذ نحلّ بهـا معـا
وإذ نحن منها بالمودّة نطمـع
إلى الله أشكو لا إلى الناس حبها
ولا بد من شكوى حبيب يروّع
ألا تتقيـن الله فيمـن قتلـتـه
فأمسى إليكم خاشعـا يتضـرّع
فإن يك جثمـاني بأرض سواكم
فإن فـؤادي عندك الدهر أجمع
ألا تتقين الله في قتـل عاشـق
لـه كبـد حرّى عليـك تقطّـع
فيا ربّ حببنـي إليهـا وأعطني
المـودّة منها أنت تعطي وتمنع
وإلا فصبّرني وإن كنت كارهـا
فإني بها يـا ذا المعارج مولـع
تمتّعْتُ منها يوم بانـوا بنظـرة
وهل عاشـقٌ من نظـرةٍ يتمتّع
الله يرحمك يا جميل
Dalzi, is this supposed to be a comment on the topic? Did you understand the topic of the thread?
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Originally Posted by Red Phoenix
there is no social problem a good quality chastity belt cant fix
So you were that guy who didnt let his wife on vacations to Greece without wearing this?
Now I wish to hear some opinions which have more to do something with reality.
In your opinion is chastity still a value? Especially concerning the girls, is their chastity still considered as a value to be preserved till their marriage?
If you are a guy, would you mind marrying a girl who is non-virgin, does it make a difference anyway?
Basically I know this is not an issue anymore, girls and guys (from all backgrounds) alike dont preserve their virginity till marriage, still society seems to hold some taboos about it, and at least pretend this is still a value to preserve especially for girls.
I wonder if it is a taboo to discuss about it, and whether it holds still any values?
In Islamic communities it still holds significant value.
In Islamic communities it still holds significant value.
Does it mean that women have to be virgin in order to get married, or this is rather outdated now?
Now we are talking in general, but I dont know if that is correct. Since I know that many from all sects dont keep this old habit anymore, so it is not related to religion actually, bur rather to individual preferences?
I don't mind if i get married to a none virgin women at all!
but saying that in Lebanon is not so good lool! especially to Lebanese people! they will think you are very strange and without any honour!
but it doesn't mean i would like to be married with a woman who opened the legs for every person she liked :p
and to bad in Lebanon a none virgin girl who was never married means she is a *****...
I don't mind if i get married to a none virgin women at all!
but saying that in Lebanon is not so good lool! especially to Lebanese people! they will think you are very strange and without any honour!
but it doesn't mean i would like to be married with a woman who opened the legs for every person she liked :p
and to bad in Lebanon a none virgin girl who was never married means she is a *****...
From where you get this?? I know you live outside Lebanon, me too, but seems am at least better informed lol
Being non virgin before marriage became completely normal even if people dont talk about it so openly...and just because a girl is not virgin it doesnt mean that she is the other extreme! High time to abandon this tribal mentality..at least Sweden shall grant you open mindedness otherwise whats the sense of living there, you can go to KSA
Is chastity still a value? -
6th October 2009
6th October 2009
Did you understand the topic of the thread?
especially to Lebanese people! they will think you are very strange and without any honour! 
