Can you Tolerate Cheating ?

[Lebanese_N_Proud]

Originally Posted by PhoenixResurrection

If someone in the couple is having problems, he/she ought to talk about it ASAP and not let it drift away and definitely NOT go on cheating on his/her partner. what this happens, it is just the first signature on the divorce papers.There is just no way to fix things up.

Sometimes the sin of adultery is a result of mere temptation and not the product of problems or misunderstandings in a marriage/relationship.
Its in the human nature....our animalistic inclination to wander, discover, and experience.

To prevent this, I think cheating should be classified as a crime. Ofcourse the death punishment would be out of the question. Perhaps some jail time.

When kids cheat on tests in school, they are suspended or expelled. They are given a punishment in order to enforce discipline. The same should apply to cheating in a relationship. Thats the only way to control infidelity in the modern society, or else it'll get even more out of hand.

[lady_forever]

well....mainly men cheat more....i wont go into my personal life but still women unfortunately in Lebanon have no right to take revenge on her husband by cheating back as they will call her a ***** but a man well they will say ohhh thats ok he is a man wstahla where is the problem as long as he gets back home isnt that hypocricy in all word means anyway i think if a woman cheats its coz of her husband

[Bodhisattva]

Originally Posted by lady_forever

well....mainly men cheat more....

interesting.. can you help with some statistics here?

i wont go into my personal life but still women unfortunately in Lebanon have no right to take revenge on her husband by cheating back as they will call her a ***** but a man well they will say ohhh thats ok he is a man wstahla where is the problem as long as he gets back home isnt that hypocricy in all word means anyway i think if a woman cheats its coz of her husband

out of all this: you are either

A) sending the Message that the healthy way for womens REVENGE is by cheating!

or

B) society, lebanese society is overall discriminating against the woman



Ill pick B as it will salvage the message you're trying to send

bodhi.

[coralie]

Bodhi i think what lady forever is trying to say is that man can cheat as he want our lebanese or even the arab societies will never judge him on the contrary some time its a prove of manhood im sorry but this is not my view but the society's ! if a woman is in the same position i mean if she for any reason cheated she will be draged to mud and called ***** she will be disgraced ......... and and and !!!!!
nevertheless , if a man cheats on his wife this does'nt mean the woman have to do the same just to get back to him ! nope for me this will be a total idiotie its absurde and wrong . any way in my opinion woman cant have a relation unless feelings are involved i mean she must be in love its totaly diffrent then a man ! (of course there is always exeptions)

[lady_forever]

well i guess i didnt make myself clear to men as i assume u misunderstood me anyway i will repeat my question if a man cheats on his wife what is he called?????? if a woman cheats on her husband here in lebanon and Arab countries what will she be called????wont her kids be humilated or become irrespected infront of others...yes they will pay ...that was my message...ok...hope u got it:

[lady_forever]

mmmm i dont have the exact number of men cheating but i can say about 90 percent of them cheat and think its ok...but if their wives cheat not as revenge but as they lack love in their life our society condamn them forever as whores that was my message hope u understand it after rephrasing it...is it clear now....goshhhhhhhh

[Bodhisattva]

Originally Posted by lady_forever

well i guess i didnt make myself clear to men

not necc just to men.. some women who read what you wrote might be offended themselves as you have

still women unfortunately in Lebanon have no right to take revenge on her husband by cheating back

is not very flattering to women, nor to marriage

as i assume u misunderstood me

understood you very well. Lebanon remains to be a sexist society where inequality is prevailing still and its disgusting .. which i agree with

i was merely pointing that out for those who might now have understood your intentions :)

anyway i will repeat my question if a man cheats on his wife what is he called??????

a Cheat

if a woman cheats on her husband

a Cheat

here in lebanon and Arab countries what will she be called????

probably a ****

wont her kids be humilated or become irrespected infront of others...yes they will pay ...that was my message...ok...hope u got it:

and that's why we needed to make some adjustments to how your message came out!

dont take it personally lady, its not good for the health!

p.S: we're on the same team..



bodhisattva.

mmmm i dont have the exact number of men cheating but i can say about 90 percent of them cheat and think its ok...but if their wives cheat not as revenge but as they lack love in their life our society condamn them forever as whores that was my message hope u understand it after rephrasing it...is it clear now.... goshhhhhhhh

Namaste..

[coralie]

Originally Posted by lady_forever

well....mainly men cheat more....i wont go into my personal life but still women unfortunately in Lebanon have no right to take revenge on her husband by cheating back as they will call her a ***** but a man well they will say ohhh thats ok he is a man wstahla where is the problem as long as he gets back home isnt that hypocricy in all word means anyway i think if a woman cheats its coz of her husband

RIGHT ??? cheating was never a right and certainly not a way to revenge ! even tho i heard it many times unfortunatly man saying :eh hayda 7a2na chou 3aleh was just an adventure !!! this cant be the right either of man or woman to cheat and to hurt the other parti !

[lady_forever]

Well you are right coralie i have heard that too some women do for revenge others coz they might be looking for love again and i know revenge isnt the good point but well unfortunately sometimes anger takes place and people cant differ what is right or wrong but my main question was that why women called sluts while men called cheaters while its both ways an adultery....that what puzzles me...not defending any side but just inquisitive to know why men can cheat still be respected while if a woman does it she is exiled in some ways

[coralie]

Originally Posted by lady_forever

Well you are right coralie i have heard that too some women do for revenge others coz they might be looking for love again and i know revenge isnt the good point but well unfortunately sometimes anger takes place and people cant differ what is right or wrong but my main question was that why women called sluts while men called cheaters while its both ways an adultery....that what puzzles me...not defending any side but just inquisitive to know why men can cheat still be respected while if a woman does it she is exiled in some ways

now ur question is clear !!!!! and ur right .... cheating is cheating regardless who do it (man or woman ) or why , it's bad and should be equaly condemned !!