Can you Tolerate Cheating ?

[freemind]

Originally Posted by Orangina

what about husbands cheating on their wives????????

cause el asatziiiiiiii

Originally Posted by Coralie

mmmmmmmmm no i dont but i have an idea about how much men cheat on their wives tho !!! women cheat as well i didnt...

well, hey ladies, i didn't mean it that way, what i said is from an objective point of view, and from personal experience, adding from what freinds and peers say and their personal experiences. Its that bad reputation men have that makes them more in the position of the accused, but the truth in the picture is that women are more easily driven to cheat, sexually speaking, since they are mentally a bit more easily taken by poetry or a flower then men are, men seem to pocess their self criticizim more often, not to sound sexist or anything at all, but its just from what i see in society, TV doesn't allways show you the real picture neither does the internet.

As for what pushs women to do such things, well i am not married, early for it still, but as for the ''madamet'' i know, it might be lack of sexual intercourse, the need of independence that might overrule the husband and make him feel guilty in some way, it might be for economical reasons, it might be due to an early marriage that lead to an unpleasant atmosphere later on, or maybe and foremost cheating from the other pair of the couple so she might cheat just to make it a tie.

[lebgirl]

Originally Posted by BEPSEH

very simple
if my girl friend cheated on me I will just leave her , but if my wife cheated I will kill her for sure , I had this conversation with a friend befor and I am sure that killing is the only option for me.

God have mercy on you, that's all i can say to you , you're not even worth commenting.

"le crime d'honneur" this is still a big problem in Lebanon...People who commit it should spend the rest of their life perishing in jail. And i will make sure in my lifetime that they get a law for that in Lebanon. (sorry went off topic a little)

[BEPSEH]

Originally Posted by lebgirl

God have mercy on you, that's all i can say to you , you're not even worth commenting.

"le crime d'honneur" this is still a big problem in Lebanon...People who commit it should spend the rest of their life perishing in jail. And i will make sure in my lifetime that they get a law for that in Lebanon. (sorry went off topic a little)

a life without honour is worthless!! and I dont care if I get executed for doing this.
لا يسلم الشرف الرفيع من الاذى حتى يراق على جوانبه الدم

[lebgirl]

Originally Posted by BEPSEH

a life without honour is worthless!! and I dont care if I get executed for doing this.
لا يسلم الشرف الرفيع من الاذى حتى يراق على جوانبه الدم

good then if u commit it, i hope u get te punishment.
i cnot believe we are on the 21th century and we still have people like you discriminating against women. i hope your wife also can consider killing you if you cheat on her.

[freemind]

Originally Posted by lebgirl

i cnot believe we are on the 21th century and we still have people like you discriminating against women. i hope your wife also can consider killing you if you cheat on her.

did you ask urself why he thinks like that? just take a minute and think about it

[coralie]

bepsheh im not convinced by ur attitude and i refuse violence ! if for any reason betrail is commited i dont see why u must be so violent even commit a crime this is not a solution !u can simply let her go or if ur the guilty part she let u go i mean divorce !
freemind i did nt get ur point why should we look closer to the case of bepshe ? a crime is a crime and will not resolve the problem .
cheating is defnatly not a nice issue but unfortunatly its becoming more and more evident in our society!the reason most of the time is a lack of feelings,love,tenderness,caring,attention,.. men are easeyer draged to the cheating life its genetique men do it for multiple reasons but the case with women is diffrent women most of the time look for something else in a relation something she miss in her marriage and as we have a lack of comunications between couples and men tend to neglect the needs of their wives and most of the time take them for granted things get out of hand and the first romantic oportunity can be fatal and lead easely to a relation just to fullfil the emptiness , im not saying this is right or wrong im simply trying to explain how things happen .

[freemind]

Coralie,
i meant that he has his reasons, he initially would have married this woman and sees in her his pride, like she is some treasure to him, a treasure made up of two parts, the mind and the body, once she cheated on him he lost her body, she is no longer his treasure, like he's been robbed, then when he realizes he lost her body he finds out that it has consequently made him loose her mind, he lost everything, what would you expect a bankrupt man to do? its either he will get a loan, which in this case cheat on her himself too, or start to build a new life which means that he will marry another woman, or take the easy option and in that case kill himslef or kill her, so this would be the option of the instinctive spontaneous people, who had lost all hope, they are the weak, so in my openion Bepseh is weak.

[coralie]

freemind this is very dramatic explanation ! the same can be applyed to woman as well ! still ppl can act more rationaly and simply divorce !! why do we have to take the hard way !!! ??? for me a person who cheat desapear from my life i ban the person as if he dont exist and go on with my life , this does nt mean it wont affect me, i surely will be hurt and sad but i will never comit a crime cause i feel "bankrupt" . but i think this is a matter of education and a way of thinking !!

[lebgirl]

Originally Posted by freemind

Coralie,
i meant that he has his reasons, he initially would have married this woman and sees in her his pride, like she is some treasure to him, a treasure made up of two parts, the mind and the body, once she cheated on him he lost her body, she is no longer his treasure, like he's been robbed, then when he realizes he lost her body he finds out that it has consequently made him loose her mind, he lost everything, what would you expect a bankrupt man to do? its either he will get a loan, which in this case cheat on her himself too, or start to build a new life which means that he will marry another woman, or take the easy option and in that case kill himslef or kill her, so this would be the option of the instinctive spontaneous people, who had lost all hope, they are the weak, so in my openion Bepseh is weak.

freemind, you're so right...Bepseh is weak, and lacks confidence thats why he would kill her...

[Skull]

very simple
if my girl friend cheated on me I will just leave her , but if my wife cheated I will kill her for sure , I had this conversation with a friend befor and I am sure that killing is the only option for me.

Well i dunno how to tell u this but... u shouldnt worry urself about this coz i dont think any girl in her right mind would marry u
Besides if u think about it u shouldnt kill her for cheating on u... u should kill urself because akid she cheated on u with another because u lacked something.. usualy girls cheat because they find new things things that r missing in the man they alredy have.. and to have missing things that are not even allowing u to conserve what became urs threw marriage is very dishonorable.. thus my suggestion for u to kill urself instead :D