Can you Tolerate Cheating ?

[Dalzi]

Originally Posted by coralie

cheating start in your mind before the act .

your fantasy might not hurt your spouse/compagnion cause they are hidden unless it start affecting your behavior toward your partner .
the act hurt cause it become a flagrant reality .

I second that. Imagine the torment of trying to figure out what's on someone's mind... Jeez no one would want to go there. Actions are easier to deal with, clear transparent and always uncovered , but people can getting away with what their minds create. Who'd want to be with someone who's thinking about someone else?

[shreek]

Every single man thinks about cheating, what they are thinking about in reality is sexual intercourse. We see a beautiful women walk past we don't think oh nice shoes, nice handbag.

Look, at it this way through this analogy; I look at the Menu, but I go home to eat......but I understand some men want to go to restaurants....

[Salome]

Originally Posted by shreek

Every single man thinks about cheating, what they are thinking about in reality is sexual intercourse. We see a beautiful women walk past we don't think oh nice shoes, nice handbag.

Look, at it this way through this analogy; I look at the Menu, but I go home to eat......but I understand some men want to go to restaurants....

Only those who don't love enough their partner...in that case you can always find an excuse like your hormons, or think that all men do this etc... from that you will be still a cheater, and you did that out of lack of love

[shadow1]

Originally Posted by Salome

Only those who don't love enough their partner...in that case you can always find an excuse like your hormons, or think that all men do this etc... from that you will be still a cheater, and you did that out of lack of love

I fully agree with you. The key to fidelity is love, otherwise I dont see the point.

[Frisbeetarian]

Originally Posted by Xena

ok another question

Does fantasizing about other men/women considered cheating?

Does masturbating and fantasizing about other men / women considered cheating?

a man / woman who has sexual dependency and can't control his/her sexual behaviour and who one day loses control and have sex with someone else. Is he / she considered a cheater?

One last question,
who is worst... a totally normal man/woman who does the cheating only in his/her head, or a sex addict who lost control and had sex with another person?

Are you a murderer for thinking about killing someone?

Even more pragmatic

Do you take a life when you think about killing something?