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I just broke up with the love of my life. It's not allowed to talk about it in here? I want to talk to someone. thnx
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It hurts. Things change, everything changes and you probably dont want to hear that. Try not to be too hard on yourself and don't punish yourself. It's going to hurt and it will take time, but it will heal

goodluck :)
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I just broke up with the love of my life. It's not allowed to talk about it in here? I want to talk to someone. thnx
Hey Sorrow!! Take it easy. It's not a big deal!! When you can't go on with somebody, better break down before it breaks you!! You will certainly meet somebody else so soon! Because when we feel sad about breaking, it means that we have a wonderful heart!! Take a GOOD and BIG time to forget but don't try to meet someone just to forget!! Forget about it then go AHEAD CLEAN for another relationship, full of Love, joy and Happiness!!
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i'm sorry, i know it's not easy!
simply try to chill out, and think~ if she's/he's the one, and you're sure, try to work it out, and if deep down you know it's for the best, have some time on your own to relax and get over it, you will be able to get over her/him with time!
now try to enjoy the sun, it's a beautiful day outside!
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I just broke up with the love of my life. It's not allowed to talk about it in here? I want to talk to someone. thnx
Sorrow I am so sorry , i know that all the words we will tell you, won't reduce the pain you are feeling.
I just want to tell you, allow yourself to be sad and angry. We call these hard moments "the period of mourning" and you should live every second in it. Ya3ni if you want to cry, do it. If you need to sit alone, do it, or being so angry just do it.... it's very healthy for you to express what you are feeling especially now. When you explode your painful feelings, you will be ready for the Healing Period. Don't worry you need just time, Be patient.

I have a book titled: Aimer, perdre, Grandir pour Jean Monbourquette. It's a great book that teach you how you can accept you loss and get out of this hard period . It's divided to many sections or levels when each level explain the feelings that you are passing thru, to finaly reach the goals which are "Growing Up", being able to forgive, being free from hate, from pain, from your Ex and then you will be ready to begin a new life with a healing heart and searching for the Right person to love, the person that really deserves your love and your feelings. Get this book you will see, it's talking about you.

Sorrow, If you feel that you want to tfish(é) khil2ak(ik) and talk about it here, i think it's allowed or maybe we should wait for a moderator to give you the permission.
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Hi Sorrow, sorry about this, we all know how it feels like :(.
I also recommend reading "The power of positive thinking". This book can change your life around! Trust me, it works......
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I just broke up with the love of my life. It's not allowed to talk about it in here? I want to talk to someone. thnx
So was he/she really the love of your life?

Noone can guarantee you that the pain will go away so easily, time will tell this.
Maybe you can think over the moments you spent with him/her, and try to learn from all these, when the pain is not so strong anymore.
This whole life is a big experience, we are learning constantly, and never forget nothing else matters just to learn and to love so dont let your heart grow hard.

Good luck
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YOUHOU ! I've a whiskey mate now !!!
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Sorrow :

1-She\He was obviously NOT the love of your life since you guys are not together anymore.
2- She\He certainly doesn't deserve you.
3- It's over ... and yes it it gonna hurt ... so cry\mourn for a while,them move on with your life.



I'm rude but it's just the way it is.

and don't freaking listen to love songs or anything that could remind you of him\her .... put on a loud tune and shake that booty
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