what you are ready to do for him/her ?

[Omeros]

Originally Posted by Dalzi

You forgot the respect Omeros. That's the most important thing :).

oh ye the respect kamen ....

ma houe look what happen with us ( her)

they say : bade yeke te7termine , respect us i am the guy , and as a reaction we respect you , but ta3e fatche nakche in their definition of respect : ull find that respecting us is not : swearing the family \ u have 3 hrs free in your day \ you can sleep without riging the fone and if u answer during those 3 hrs : 7ayete le ma nemte :| chou kenete 3m ta3mlo

or respect : my family can do anythng can hurt you and ill watch

or look that beautiful respect maslan : 7ayete mich cheyef ghairyik ana u should go with me everywhere le2an i do respect u !

etc etc etc etc ,,,, eh respect ma3loum

bas i need to ask a guy : shou ya3ne respect !

i dont want the definition of how u respect the lady no answer me HOW YOU RESPECT UR FRIEND ( THE GUY ) than apply the same concept on the girl for the simple reason that you think guys that what women have is YOUR RIGHT and if you didnt took her soul out of her body ya3ne your doing chy mhem !

[BOILER]

Originally Posted by Zouxi

Yes indeed Dalzi, respect is the most important thing that a man can offer to a woman. Unfortunately, the Lebanese rusty mentality of men believe that men posses their ladies which is not true. The woman should be given trust,privacy and a wide range of freedom so she can be honest and act spontaneously with her man.

Are we like this?
3anjad? ma kint 3erif?
barki 7asab elmanati2 cause ma 3am shouf minnon heik rjel.

[Zouxi]

Originally Posted by BOILER

Are we like this?
3anjad? ma kint 3erif?
barki 7asab elmanati2 cause ma 3am shouf minnon heik rjel.

not all of them, but you have lots around....

[BOILER]

Omeros, Most wives in Lebanon mgannajine wmtshatshine ktir.
You see many women who don't work. They stay at their houses, letting their man to work all day so she could go and practice her favoutite hobby: Shopping.
Hidole rason maksour??

[Faithful]

I want him to love me and to accept me as i am ... that's it

[Omeros]

Originally Posted by Zouxi

not all of them, but you have lots around....

i guess those are the mature , a mature man will know when he should be hard \ kind \ soft and strong ... he should know when he should kiss her when he should lock the door but A GUY WITH 0 % MATURITY will loose her ,

he will be :

possessive : ye7mela like portecle everywhere and after a long time she will feel that shes nt breathing anymore

he wont know the definition of : respect when ull ask him abt it , he will answer yes oh i do ,, ta3a fatech 3al details and the scientific answer he will be like a snake

he wont know how to protect her and learn her how she should be free and learn her to be independent and when she is HYE BTEJE LA 3NDO LIKE BABY ,, BUT when he will act with her like slave BADA TOLOBTO 3A RASO

ETC ETC ,

et sa7 ya boiler 7ASAB L MANATE2 ou this is the difference between rjeil 3alam telet AND civilized guys

[Dalzi]

Originally Posted by Omeros

oh ye the respect kamen ....

ma houe look what happen with us ( her)

they say : bade yeke te7termine , respect us i am the guy , and as a reaction we respect you , but ta3e fatche nakche in their definition of respect : ull find that respecting us is not : swearing the family \ u have 3 hrs free in your day \ you can sleep without riging the fone and if u answer during those 3 hrs : 7ayete le ma nemte :| chou kenete 3m ta3mlo

Mutual respect is a must. Swearing is gross. Cheating on each other is better than swearing to each other.

or respect : my family can do anythng can hurt you and ill watch

That's not a man :).

or look that beautiful respect maslan : 7ayete mich cheyef ghairyik ana u should go with me everywhere le2an i do respect u !

etc etc etc etc ,,,, eh respect ma3loum

bas i need to ask a guy : shou ya3ne respect !

i dont want the definition of how u respect the lady no answer me HOW YOU RESPECT UR FRIEND ( THE GUY ) than apply the same concept on the girl for the simple reason that you think guys that what women have is YOUR RIGHT and if you didnt took her soul out of her body ya3ne your doing chy mhem !

You can't judge how a man will treat you from the way he treats men ;). Treatment can be so different from one gender to another...

[BOILER]

Originally Posted by Omeros

oh ye the respect kamen ....

ma houe look what happen with us ( her)

they say : bade yeke te7termine , respect us i am the guy , and as a reaction we respect you , but ta3e fatche nakche in their definition of respect : ull find that respecting us is not : swearing the family \ u have 3 hrs free in your day \ you can sleep without riging the fone and if u answer during those 3 hrs : 7ayete le ma nemte :| chou kenete 3m ta3mlo

or respect : my family can do anythng can hurt you and ill watch

or look that beautiful respect maslan : 7ayete mich cheyef ghairyik ana u should go with me everywhere le2an i do respect u !

etc etc etc etc ,,,, eh respect ma3loum

bas i need to ask a guy : shou ya3ne respect !

i dont want the definition of how u respect the lady no answer me HOW YOU RESPECT UR FRIEND ( THE GUY ) than apply the same concept on the girl for the simple reason that you think guys that what women have is YOUR RIGHT and if you didnt took her soul out of her body ya3ne your doing chy mhem !

He could start respecting her by treating her good infront of people(family,friends etc..) and keep the same level of respect when they are totaly alone.
mish 2iddem el3alam byi3bada wla 7alon byodroba!

[Dalzi]

Originally Posted by Zouxi

not all of them, but you have lots around....

Yes true, I know where you can find a lot of those ;) lol.

[Omeros]

Originally Posted by BOILER

Omeros, Most wives in Lebanon mgannajine wmtshatshine ktir.
You see many women who don't work. They stay at their houses, letting their man to work all day so she could go and practice her favoutite hobby: Shopping.
Hidole rason maksour??

mghanajin ? okay

ur judging WRONG ! this are prejudges , ou 3ayb l choum :) just go to ur mom ask her if shes mghanaje :)

ladys have their own life :) they need to be good looking like you like sports :) maybe watching tv ma be kalef 2ad doing shopping and maybe some shallow girl byosorfo 200 % of their money on clothes but their is big part of girls whom arnt like this , as for me for example i buy just what i need but if you see me every day ull think that i sleep in the mall why ? cz i know what how to do .
i dont work 26\ 24 hrs per day ta rou7 7oton 3a bala ta3me ...


as for me the lady , i know my mom is a lady too she need to feel that shes beautiful why i should judge her ? ma shes my mom and i adore shoufa 7elwe ... is it wrong ? so i wll go to buy for here some clothes ,,, etc etc etc

this is life boiler , dnt be -ive :)


i will allow my self to talk abt my someone i know , im gonna tell you how lebanese lady are fighters ( labwet )

a lady lost her husb she was 32 years old with 3 kids 3 KIDS 3A 2IDA with 0% money with 0 % support ,.... with no one she could marry go find a guy as u said ya rjeil YDOba BAS NO she was a fighter .....

she worked days and night , she was working with tears .... she though that if she will get married someone will hurt her little child and if she will get married another guy will be here taking her husb 's place !

yet this LADY was mghanaje aktar ma btetsawar , jawza ken mghanaja .


in the other hand : no not true , not all girls are like this sorry for telling u :) really sorry ... :)