what you are ready to do for him/her ?

[Maggie]

ok ladies let's talk frankly ... we always say that men are very demanding and men are selfish and trators and and and ...
we see many couples today getting the divorce after 2 or 3 years max of marriage ... while they were together for years before marriage.

let's talk frankly as i said before ... the problem is not always with men ... even it's not only because of men ... it's because of men and women.

maybe we don't understand their needs very well and we don't express our needs for them ... and here we enter in a big problem and in an empty circle that we both don't understand each other and don't understand our needs and we start facing the daily problems.

my question for you ladies is:
what are you ready to do for him (your partner) to make him happy?

are you ready to talk to him in every little thing that it bother you both no matter what it is ... sexual ... sentimental ... physical ... something you hate in him ... something bad in you ... anything could face you both every day?

are you ready to change anything in your personality to make him happy (akid for good)?

are you ready to forgive him if he made a mistake?

are you ready to talk to him instead of yelling and nagging and annoying him to solve a problem you faced together?

men ... you can discuss it with us too ok

[Chief]

nothing, let him do everything for you

[Maggie]

Originally Posted by Chief

nothing, let him do everything for you

sorry ... i am asking for sharing life with him ... i don't need a slave

[Sirius]

People should accept that it doesn't always work out as planned. Simple.

[Dalzi]

Originally Posted by Maggie

Are you ready to talk to him in every little thing that it bother you both no matter what it is ... sexual ... sentimental ... physical ... something you hate in him ... something bad in you ... anything could face you both every day?

If you're not ready to talk, then by all means break up. Negotiations are essential in everything :D. You just gotta accept that you can't have it your way, it's gotta be something both agree on. So be prepared "litaqdeem al tanazulat" if you're not used to it...

are you ready to change anything in your personality to make him happy (akid for good)?

Change to the better of course, who doesn't seek improvement? But it's gotta work both ways... You don't keep changing things (which is not easy at all) while he keeps his ugly habits.

are you ready to forgive him if he made a mistake?

Depends on the kind of mistake.

are you ready to talk to him instead of yelling and nagging and annoying him to solve a problem you faced together?

Nagging is childish and yelling is unwomanly. I hate women who shout, I'm sure no one would want to live with someone who thinks that the higher the voice the more effective (which is very wrong). We're not talking about delivering a speech here, so SHN is safe :D.

وَاقْصِدْ فِي مَشْيِكَ وَاغْضُضْ مِن صَوْتِكَ إِنَّ أَنكَرَ الْأَصْوَاتِ لَصَوْتُ الْحَمِيرِ

صدق الله العلي العظيم

[Maggie]

وَاقْصِدْ فِي مَشْيِكَ وَاغْضُضْ مِن صَوْتِكَ إِنَّ أَنكَرَ الْأَصْوَاتِ لَصَوْتُ الْحَمِيرِصدق الله العلي العظيم

Dalzi you made my day hahaha

thanks for your nice reply
i have a question for you: if one day you were cooking and he entered the kitchen to help you ... but he burned the food and you were so tired preparing it and you were almost done ... what would be your reaction?

[Salome]

Originally Posted by Maggie

my question for you ladies is:
what are you ready to do for him (your partner) to make him happy?

Complicated question, it depends on what happy means for him, happiness in everyday small things or his long run wish, a life vision (or the illusion of it).

are you ready to talk to him in every little thing that it bother you both no matter what it is ... sexual ... sentimental ... physical ... something you hate in him ... something bad in you ... anything could face you both every day

Question is, is he ready to listen every little thing? Sometimes they just can not take too much discussion, especially when it is about his bad habits:p

are you ready to change anything in your personality to make him happy (akid for good)?

Anything? It depends what that anything is, I guess our core personality can not be changed, only small things, habits.

are you ready to forgive him if he made a mistake?

It depends on what kind of mistake it is, if you specify I can answer.

are you ready to talk to him instead of yelling and nagging and annoying him to solve a problem you faced together?

I dont like the "talk to him", rather "with" him, its important that he is a partner in discussion. Its also important whether a couple can identify what the problem is anyway, is it a problem for both of them or just to one of them.

[Lebanese_dream]

Originally Posted by Maggie

Dalzi you made my day hahaha

thanks for your nice reply
i have a question for you: if one day you was cooking and he entered the kitchen to help you ... but he burned the food and you was so tired preparing it and you was almost done ... what would be your reaction?

If he burns the food, you will call for a delivery or you will check this thread The Cooking Thread and choose an easy recipe to prepare together with a great smile!!!

You should be cool w bala thestor a7san ma yehchal!

[Layyouss]

Originally Posted by Lebanese_dream

If he burns the food, you will call for a delivery or you will check this thread The Cooking Thread and choose an easy recipe to prepare together with a great smile!!!

You should be cool w bala thestor a7san ma yehchal!

W eza hashal you can go to this thread Yalla keis l jami3 ;) w tokhobteh shi drink gheir shekel, bymsheh l 7al

[Maggie]

guys you should be happy 3am njarib njebelkon 72ou2kon