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Why you guys/girls are sexist sometimes. 2enno there are men like this and men like that, and there are girls like this and girls like that. U cannot say all men are this and all women are that. And when to person fall in love for each others, they will do evtg to please each others, and when not, wala alla. So don't complicate your lives and go find for your soulmate, and if the so-called soulmate is behaving in a very arrogant way, than he probably won't be the one, go look for someone else, because he's not sharing the same feelings with U.

Tony :) i agree with u HOWEVER there's couples who r deeply in luv n still dont understand each other behavior sometimes ! men n women think differently abt the smallest issues so its a logical subj to b discussed :)
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Honestly. With all due respect, love, and admiration, sometimes we just don't get you. Would it kill you to tell us how you feel once in a while? How many times do we have to go, "Notice anything new?" before you realize we've done something interesting with our hair? Why do you take so many insane risks? And what's with the road rage? We are asking u smart, funny, surprisingly men to clear up these :D
LOL... and they say women are complicated !
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There is one thing that women do that I really don't understand. The scenario is something like this:

A guy and girl meet, and they like each other, so they begin a relationship. The girl starts telling the guy how he is different from all other guys, and how he gets things and I donno what, and basically places him up on a pedestal. Then, the inevitable comes along and the guy acts insensitively or says something stupid without thinking, and the girl tells the guy that she is really disappointed in him, and she thought he was different but hes just the same as all the other guys, and that she will never forget what he did. And you know what? She never forgets!!! Every time they have a disagreement she brings it up, keeps reminding him about it, even though he has apologized a million times.

I mean c'mon, girls need to learn how to let things go and forgive. No matter how "great" a guy is, he is going to say something stupid and hurtful eventually, without thinking before speaking. It is inevitable. Does it really deserve such a grudge?
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Honestly. With all due respect, love, and admiration, sometimes we just don't get you. Would it kill you to tell us how you feel once in a while? How many times do we have to go, "Notice anything new?" before you realize we've done something interesting with our hair? Why do you take so many insane risks? And what's with the road rage? We are asking u smart, funny, surprisingly men to clear up these :D
If you do not like the way we are just jump the fence, I'm sure they would welcome you.
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Honestly. With all due respect, love, and admiration, sometimes we just don't get you. Would it kill you to tell us how you feel once in a while?
Ok, let me give it a shot ...


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How many times do we have to go, "Notice anything new?" before you realize we've done something interesting with our hair?
You should be happy that we are like that, because with all the in-securities that girls have, it would be brutal if we realize things and tell you about them...


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Simple, we measure things by potential outcome and not by price

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And what's with the road rage?
Because the idiot in the car in front does not know how to drive
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There is one thing that women do that I really don't understand. The scenario is something like this:

A guy and girl meet, and they like each other, so they begin a relationship. The girl starts telling the guy how he is different from all other guys, and how he gets things and I donno what, and basically places him up on a pedestal. Then, the inevitable comes along and the guy acts insensitively or says something stupid without thinking, and the girl tells the guy that she is really disappointed in him, and she thought he was different but hes just the same as all the other guys, and that she will never forget what he did. And you know what? She never forgets!!! Every time they have a disagreement she brings it up, keeps reminding him about it, even though he has apologized a million times.

I mean c'mon, girls need to learn how to let things go and forgive. No matter how "great" a guy is, he is going to say something stupid and hurtful eventually, without thinking before speaking. It is inevitable. Does it really deserve such a grudge?
doesnt this apply to men too?

but the solution is easy : dont say anything hurtfully unforgettable
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Honestly. With all due respect, love, and admiration, sometimes we just don't get you. Would it kill you to tell us how you feel once in a while? How many times do we have to go, "Notice anything new?" before you realize we've done something interesting with our hair? Why do you take so many insane risks? And what's with the road rage? We are asking u smart, funny, surprisingly men to clear up these :D
I dont think this applies to all men. I remember when I had a wife I used to tell her all sorts of stuff and even make up things when I had to. I can't tell you how many times I told her her hair looked nice when it really didnt and that her clothes made her look chic when they really didnt and that her make-up made her look so much younger when it really didnt, and that her tastes were immaculate when they really werent, and her shoes made her feet look cute when they only did the opposite, and her conversations were mesmerising when in fact they fell far short from it.

I mean let's face it I did my very best to keep her feeling great about herself but nature was a much stronger force than my lies so at the end when she would stand in her bedroom and say: mirror mirror on the wall who is the fairest of them all? I could no longer feign sincerity and I just said : Not you dear.
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I dont think this applies to all men. I remember when I had a wife I used to tell her all sorts of stuff and even make up things when I had to. I can't tell you how many times I told her her hair looked nice when it really didnt and that her clothes made her look chic when they really didnt and that her make-up made her look so much younger when it really didnt, and that her tastes were immaculate when they really werent, and her shoes made her feet look cute when they only did the opposite, and her conversations were mesmerising when in fact they fell far short from it.

I mean let's face it I did my very best to keep her feeling great about herself but nature was a much stronger force than my lies so at the end when she would stand in her bedroom and say: mirror mirror on the wall who is the fairest of them all? I could no longer feign sincerity and I just said : Not you dear.
You suffered a lot.
To recognize the light is all what matters.
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You suffered a lot.
To recognize the light is all what matters.
Lol. yes I have suffered a lot but the lord rewarded me for my patience by showing her a much brighter road away from me. For that I will forever be thankful to the lord.
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I dont think this applies to all men. I remember when I had a wife I used to tell her all sorts of stuff and even make up things when I had to. I can't tell you how many times I told her her hair looked nice when it really didnt and that her clothes made her look chic when they really didnt and that her make-up made her look so much younger when it really didnt, and that her tastes were immaculate when they really werent, and her shoes made her feet look cute when they only did the opposite, and her conversations were mesmerising when in fact they fell far short from it.

I mean let's face it I did my very best to keep her feeling great about herself but nature was a much stronger force than my lies so at the end when she would stand in her bedroom and say: mirror mirror on the wall who is the fairest of them all? I could no longer feign sincerity and I just said : Not you dear.
LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL... and the spell was broken !!!

why did have to lie in the first place ? could nt you be just honest , and tell her the truth in a nice way maybe it would have helped more the poor woman to pay attention and tzabit what was wrong .
poor woman you were misleading her and Leured her into believing she was pretty , elegant , nice and as she trusted you she blindly believed you LOL...
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