Quite surprising indeed to see you here away from politics Observer. Its a remarkable love story you have, seems like you found true love with that girl. But why these true loves have to end so often? Was it really a true love? Can you be in love truly more than once? Isnt there just ONE person for us out there, the real one?
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Originally Posted by Observer ...Then we kept contact and everytime I visit lebanon we go out here and there. It is not that I see her everyday but we do see each other everytime I visit Lebanon. We call each other from time to time and talk through e-mail and she tells me about life and ask for advice and I do the same. We are on very good terms. I got married though and things can not be that simply anymore otherwise the wife will beat the sh** out of me loooooooooooooool. |
Although you say you dont love her anymore, and you now have a wife, nevertheless you keep in contact with her in a way like this, quite regularly? And your wife knows about it?
Sorry I have to tell you if my husband/bf would do something like this, and sometime it turns out, I wont beat the s*** out of him, I would just say bye.
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Originally Posted by naty It should be easier when one discovers that the other person is a totally opposite person than she/he imagined,isn't it Doc? |
You mean an opposite personality than you have? I guess it depends, if love is strong enough to keep a couple together in spite of the different personalities, then it works, although it can be embarrassing sometimes.
On the other hand, if you are with someone who has a similar personality like you, wouldnt it be just boring with him after a while? I mean its cute to discover that wow you have the same taste, thoughts and opinions in everything like me, but is that funny on the long run?
In addition what can you learn from someone who is an identical of you?