Good girls love bad boys!?

[Zouxi]

Btw, i have another question: why transsexuals love both bad boys and bad girls?

[Anny]

I dont believe someone is a 100% good and a 100% bad.

Some girls are really good in certain things but there is always the bad side of us that makes certain things in life ''fun''. Per example, you can be a good person by being very polite with others, respectful, religious or whatever you call it but in the same time, you still a human to make certain desicions against what your religion expect from you specially in your personal life. Does it really mean that you are a bad person if you are having sex with the man you love?

Forget the religion here and forget the eastern protocoles by the holy church and the the holy islam believes and rely only on your sense, what some people on this forum say its bad to have sex before getting married if you are a girl specially if you have been in the same relationship for a long period of time? I am trying to understand why some people say its being a bad girl when the same acts are being done by a man but our society dont qualify him to be a bad boy.

A bad girl or a bad boy really means to me a person who do not care of anything in life and is really opened to cheat on a person who loves her back or a criminal or a azaar.

[Salome]

Originally Posted by Abufijli

So true, but some of us men are not dumb either, we go for these women for a certain period of our lives and then when its time to settle down we choose another kind, more down to earth kind of girl. I know many who do this, and I know some that have fallen for the wrong girl.

Thats true, and I would add not SOME but many has fallen for the wrong girl when thinking about to settle. And why, because all their lives they were surrounded by shallow b_tchy women, and have never developed a common sense or a sense at all for the nice good girls.
And when a supposed good girl appears with angel wings and a sweet innocent smile, they think they found Z one.
But you know they just deserve it!!!
One who leads a shallow life deserve no better than shallow people and being fooled.
It takes a miracle for them to be redeemed and to meet the real sweet one..

A question for the ladies: Does all of this fit into the "bad boy" picture? If you have mag wheels and a nice stereo do you qualify as a "bad boy"?

Well surely qualifies for someone seemingly superficial.

[syrian]

ok anny, but how would that girl feel after she breaks up with that guy?

how would she feel about herself when she goes through the same experience several times? constantly loving, having sex, and breaking up?

also, is it only for the pleasure that she has sex with him, or is it because she thinks she's gonna be with him forever and marry him?

[Zayn]

Originally Posted by Dalzi

I like good bad boys SHN type but not in that religious version

Oh wow, Dalzi is crushing on al-Sayed.

[Anny]

Originally Posted by syrian

ok anny, but how would that girl feel after she breaks up with that guy?

how would she feel about herself when she goes through the same experience several times? constantly loving, having sex, and breaking up?

also, is it only for the pleasure that she has sex with him, or is it because she thinks she's gonna be with him forever and marry him?

Its the same for the boys don't you think? And they still have sex with many girls. I agree with you on this one, but I am still not convinced. Do you really think that if she had sex with a guy that she truly was in love with and then he broke up with her after a long term relationship, but she used to think that he was the guy of her life, do you still think she is a bad girl? Thats what I meant. I didnt mean some girl who sleeps around with every guy she went out with.

Do you see what I mean. I dont consider that girl who was in the real relationship and she really thaught he was the guy of her life and she had sex with him a bad girl. The same thing applies for a guy.

And a guy who sleeps around with all the girls he go out with or pretend he slept around with all the girls he went out with, for me, he is consider bad, I would even be scared to approach him just because I am conviced he isnt good. You get what I mean (same situation for a girl).

What do you consider bad in a girl (is it just because she lost her virginity?)

[syrian]

Originally Posted by Anny

Its the same for the boys don't you think? And they still have sex with many girls. I agree with you on this one, but I am still not convinced. Do you really think that if she had sex with a guy that she truly was in love with and then he broke up with her after a long term relationship, but she used to think that he was the guy of her life, do you still think she is a bad girl? Thats what I meant. I didnt mean some girl who sleeps around with every guy she went out with.

Do you see what I mean. I dont consider that girl who was in the real relationship and she really thaught he was the guy of her life and she had sex with him a bad girl. The same thing applies for a guy.

And a guy who sleeps around with all the girls he go out with or pretend he slept around with all the girls he went out with, for me, he is consider bad, I would even be scared to approach him just because I am conviced he isnt good. You get what I mean (same situation for a girl).

What do you consider bad in a girl (is it just because she lost her virginity?)

no, i never said she's a bad girl!

i mean, if she had that with him, and then with the next one, etc... each time thinking it's the guy of her life, where would that leave her?

and let's say it's the first guy she has sex with, and then they broke up... wouldnt she regret she had sex with him?

[Anny]

Originally Posted by syrian

no, i never said she's a bad girl!

i mean, if she had that with him, and then with the next one, etc... each time thinking it's the guy of her life, where would that leave her?

and let's say it's the first guy she has sex with, and then they broke up... wouldnt she regret she had sex with him?

Same questions to boys? Do you regret having sex with the first girl of your life?

And by the way, I dont consider someone bad if you learn from your mistake to not repeat them if its really a mistake having sex before marriage for a girl. Because your answer doesnt make sense for me, why would it be a mistake for a girl and not for a guy.

Then, I am with you on the fact that the girl is bad if she have sex each time she thinks that its the love of her life and she is dumb enough to repeat the same mistakes more than one time. But still, I would go back to the same conclusion, that why a girl should accept a guy in her life that had sex before her? Dont you agree that we are on a equal level here and we are not married at an average of 16-17-18 years old like our mothers use to get married at?

[syrian]

Originally Posted by Anny

why would it be a mistake for a girl and not for a guy.

coz guys and girls view their bodies differently...

a guy wouldnt give as much importance to that as girls, right?

Originally Posted by Anny

But still, I would go back to the same conclusion, that why a girl should accept a guy in her life that had sex before her? Dont you agree that we are on a equal level here

ur right... i agree with u totally... BUT only a few people believe in that equality... and the inequality results from the fact that they both view their bodies differently...

girls shouldnt accept such boys, but reality's different... i've asked many girls who apparently are saving themselves for marriage, and they all have no problem with boys having sex before them... they say all guys do that, none saves himself for marriage...

[lady_forever]

Originally Posted by syrian

ok anny, but how would that girl feel after she breaks up with that guy?

how would she feel about herself when she goes through the same experience several times? constantly loving, having sex, and breaking up?

also, is it only for the pleasure that she has sex with him, or is it because she thinks she's gonna be with him forever and marry him?

I dont think that girls of nowadays are soo silly to go through same experience,she goes throughbreak up once or twice then she learns through her mistake who is the serious one or the one behind fun breaking up so soo hard on both if they were in love but time heals the pain...no girl have sex with a boy thinking she has to so he marries her if she ...if she does it its cause she wants it too...