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Originally Posted by coralie why am i not surprised ??? u cant even make the diffrence between old and mature !!! well open ur dictionary and make some research mayb this will help:
1- improve ur vocabulary
2- help u to "mature" little bit (even tho i doubt)
u asked me before how u were disrespectfull well this last poste of urs is the prove u need !!!! capich ??? | Coralie, i think BEPSEH did that on purpose  | | | | | Registered Member
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Originally Posted by Diabolo_7 Coralie, i think BEPSEH did that on purpose  | diablo (pampa) byefhamleh rasseh! | | | | | Registered Member
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Originally Posted by lebanon4ever I want to tell you about my friendship with two girls.The first is one year older than me,the other is three years older.
we were friends for about two years,when suddenly love knocked on the girls door,the first started to go out with a guy,i could not see her too much anymore,the second got engaged and didn't have that much time for me or for every other friend.
This thing made ,the friendship flame go away little by little ,it dissappeared and the friendship ended.
The moral of the story,is ,due to the complication of our lebanese society ,a girl and a man cannot always be close friends.where will this friendship ends???
Imagine ,in the future,i am telling to my spouse that i am going out alone with a friend (who is a woman).
Is my spouse ready to accept this idea???
Am i ready to accept that my spouse is going out with her best friend who happens to be a guy???
WIll my best friend accept me as a guest in her home,while her husband is out ???
WILL THE SOCIETY ACCEPT THIS FACT???????????
We should not forget that our society needs a lot of work,in lebanon,if a man says hello to a woman,it means they are going out...
so this is my experience woth friendships from the opposite sex,even if this friendship becomes deep,sooner this friendship towards one woman will be towards the woman and her husband and won't be exclusive to the woman only. | Very true... unfortunately. | | | | | Registered Member
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Originally Posted by lebanon4ever I want to tell you about my friendship with two girls.The first is one year older than me,the other is three years older.
we were friends for about two years,when suddenly love knocked on the girls door,the first started to go out with a guy,i could not see her too much anymore,the second got engaged and didn't have that much time for me or for every other friend.
This thing made ,the friendship flame go away little by little ,it dissappeared and the friendship ended.
The moral of the story,is ,due to the complication of our lebanese society ,a girl and a man cannot always be close friends.where will this friendship ends???
Imagine ,in the future,i am telling to my spouse that i am going out alone with a friend (who is a woman).
Is my spouse ready to accept this idea???
Am i ready to accept that my spouse is going out with her best friend who happens to be a guy???
WIll my best friend accept me as a guest in her home,while her husband is out ???
WILL THE SOCIETY ACCEPT THIS FACT???????????
We should not forget that our society needs a lot of work,in lebanon,if a man says hello to a woman,it means they are going out...
so this is my experience woth friendships from the opposite sex,even if this friendship becomes deep,sooner this friendship towards one woman will be towards the woman and her husband and won't be exclusive to the woman only. |
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Originally Posted by Diabolo_7 Coralie, i think BEPSEH did that on purpose  | mayb !!! his past posts simply will not help a lot in his favour !!! lebanonforever
i totaly agree with u unfortunatly our society is still an old fashioned mentality ! and yes u ll end up having a good friendship with both the woman and her husband "protocole oblige" ... | | | | | Registered Member
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Miss Coralie,
From my experience, I would tell you that no, a man and woman cannot remain friends unless there are exceptions.
These exceptions however, proves that this friendship is distant and not close.
Any close relationship between a man and woman goes beyound that line later on.
I had a best friend, it was a girl---I ended up loving her not feeling that way for her in the begining, since I only saw her as a friend---but that changed once I got to know her inside.
However, she didn't love me in return.
I heard that she did love me but we couldn't get it on together because she was a married woman---something I found out later.
She was older then me by some years, I was 18, she was 23 then.
Just to prove to you that even when a guy and a girl that are friends and the age number is huge, it still doesn't mean there isn't something going on.
I still see nothing wrong with the idea of someone being your friend and then she becomes your wife.
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Originally Posted by lady_forever | Lady Lady
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27th September 2005
Could you please STOP with all your bickerings?
Thank you.
As to answer your question Coralie, I don't see any problem to have a real and deep friendship between a man and a woman.
I know a lot of success stories that back me up too  | | | |  | | |
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