I do think that friendships can stay purely friendships where you share points of views,advice,problems to a certain extend.
But in many cases ,relationships change into love .Have you watched "My best friend's wedding" when julia realizes that she loves her best friend when he decides to get married.Well when a friendship between a man and a woman gets so intimate it becomes love(in most cases) even if you don't realise it.
I think pure friendship does exist between man and woman -
24th September 2005
First of all, i'd like to define the word of pure friendship. In my mind, pure friendship is the one in which man and woman , man and man, woman and woman, treat each other with heart and soul and they dont want to be rewarded by getting something from the one he or she has given to . And during the process of helping each other, no other feeling or emotion is involved but friendship. We can get the idea from the example below.
Once i met two people and they were just the very type of pure friendship. The guy or the man to be exact, is always willing to help the woman. He would do almost anything for her and they just keep the bottom line and the woman is married..
At that time, i felt quite puzzled and wondered why they kept this kind of relationship. There is a so-called feeling which is just between love and friendship.
Have you ever heard of it ?
I think it is the Detached Love, Selfless Love, Unconditional Love..our wise friend Bodhi talked about..
if he is not attracted to you he is either gay , he have a gf or he is not thinking about a relation in this time or you are not attractive, period
Bepseh the more i read u the more i wonder and ask myself are u living on planet earth in the 21th century in a normal society ? u have this uncivilised way of talking !! if a man talks to me like u do (and this is impossible in my serounding) be sure he will hear me !!!! i would really see what kind of girl will be attrakted to a man who think this way about woman !! let me tell u this being impolite or vulgar is an exelent way to make woman runaway from u !! so my advice to u :change ur ways and learn to be more polite while talking about woman cause realy u sound disrespectfull!!! sorry had to say this !
Bepseh the more i read u the more i wonder and ask myself are u living on planet earth in the 21th century in a normal society ? u have this uncivilised way of talking !! if a man talks to me like u do (and this is impossible in my serounding) be sure he will hear me !!!! i would really see what kind of girl will be attrakted to a man who think this way about woman !! let me tell u this being impolite or vulgar is an exelent way to make woman runaway from u !! so my advice to u :change ur ways and learn to be more polite while talking about woman cause realy u sound disrespectfull!!! sorry had to say this !
disrespect me ????????? i didnt say u disrespect ME read well my poste , and more read ur postes all over and thrue diffrent threads Bepseh u show so little regards toward woman !! and this really bothers me !!! im sorry but usualy i say what i feel and think !!! any way i will not argue more on this matter this is ur way and this is ur point of view i said what was annoying me ..thats all thanks
I cant if a female is attractive and she is close to me why should I leave her for another man !, I just can't! I am a man and men compete with each others over girls.
Sorry dear friend but as i read your posts not only here...i felt u have a big problem and u need some help. Believe me the more you say,the more common you are to say something foolish.
Guys/girls out there don't ask him why..just pass him by..i don't think Bepseh means what he says...he just wants to see our reaction,your silence will make him uncomfortable, humans are machines of intrpretation and explanation; they have to know what you are thinking.
if he is not attracted to you he is either gay , he have a gf or he is not thinking about a relation in this time or you are not attractive, period
You have issues dude..dont worry about him, someone like you can never understand this kind of relationship...Diabolo, coralie and the others did a good job replying to you..i dont need to add anything especially to someone like you..
if he is not attracted to you he is either gay , he have a gf or he is not thinking about a relation in this time or you are not attractive, period
You have issues dude..dont worry about him, someone like you can never understand this kind of relationship...Diabolo, coralie and the others did a good job replying to you..i dont need to add anything especially to someone like you..
I cant if a female is attractive and she is close to me why should I leave her for another man !, I just can't! I am a man and men compete with each others over girls.
khaffefle hel steroids shwei ya BEPSEH, for once think with your brains and not ur testosterone
24th September 2005
i was just going to quote Bodhi when i read ur poste !!! 
u show so little regards toward woman !! and this really bothers me !!! im sorry but usualy i say what i feel and think !!! any way i will not argue more on this matter this is ur way and this is ur point of view i said what was annoying me ..thats all thanks
