Cool Gender Perks

[Red Phoenix]

Originally Posted by Faithful

If you can switch your gender for 9 months just to carry a baby in your womb, you would never say this Saladin... it's the most pleasant feeling a human being can feel...you will never imagine how wonderful it is to feel a part of you growing inside you.

Ps: Do you know Saladin that women can support pain more than man....this what i like in women, you may see us weak but you can never imagine how much pain we can support

no faithful, i'm pretty sure women can support pain more than males can that's why women have through the ages put up with male oppression and never overthrew the male dominated society.

u'r high pain threshhold made wonders and that's why society is like it is today with male maniacs holding the triggers of all capital institutions.

[Red Phoenix]

Originally Posted by Saladin

I never said you're weak, in fact I see my mother as the strongest person in the world. As for the pregnancy, I guess I'll never know how it feels, I only saw the ugly side of it .

ya so true, but girls always assume the worse dont' they..?

which reinforces my main original theory that males are happier creatures hehe :)

[Anny]

Originally Posted by Red Phoenix

dear Faithful, i'm not trying to convince u of anything :)

i'm just telling u why it's more fun being a guy here that's all, and ya none of those things can be done by girls cuz girls cant girls can be warriors unless u want to consider rape victims warriors, they can't be hunters cuz u know they can't kill a rat even if they wanted, they can't be explorers cuz they can't last long alone at sea or in the desert or mountains or jungles cuz of their period, and they can't have 300 kids that's just impossible, they also can't be innocent sex creatures unless they end up madanes in brothels, and they sure as heck can't be happy for no reason since they are always nagging for no reason in contrast hehe

so as i said, it's not about who is better or not, it's all about why it's fun to be a guy and why there is no reason to change really if god blessed u with the Y chromosome :)

on the other hand, girls are blessed with the gift of life and either solid 9 month of hard labor each time passion erupts between couples unprotected or with a recurring one month period void big-bang if immaculate conception just isn't working for them ..

Oh my god, are you serious, coz from what you said, you have no idea what is being a women.

First of all, the period part is nothing, dont be fooled by what people tell you but when girls have their period, they can do whatever they want as much as another normal day. Yes we can be hunters and some of us are already. I have a friend, its a she, and she always go and shoot birds. Also, we can be explorers and many women already are. And yes we can have 300 children but what is so positive about that ? lol Where you thinking it was a positive thing to have such a big amount of kids of your own?

And dont tell me, you men dont nagg? Men always complain about everything and anything but thats not the sex you are of, its the genes, some women dont complain at all while some do and some men always complain and you always count on us to cook for you, do this and do that, we dont nagg for those things. Wait till you get married and tell me how much you will nagg for this and that. I am guessing you are single and living with your mom and dad and that your mom is cooking for you, I want to hear her version of how many times you nagged because you didnt like the supper she did.

[Saladin]

Originally Posted by Anny

I have never carried a child for 9 monthes yet but one day I might be and from friends who had that experience, for them feeling the baby inside of them was the best thing a human can explore since the beginning of their life, so yes at the day of the birth, it might be hurtful for 1 day but for that only day, it is so worth it to be a women than being a man. But I might be wrong coz I have never been a man and I have no idea how is it being a man, but since we are in the 21st century, I dont see a big difference from being a man or a women specially in Lebanon, maybe in Saudi arabia and in the other arab muslim world, its different but otherwise, there are not much difference in our days.

Some of you mentionned having the freedom of having sex and all that, but we women also do have that same freedom, the only difference is do we want to put out our body in risks to have so much STDs and in our teens and 20s, it seems women can handle their lives without having sex at all, I am not sure that men can. At our 30s, the roles changes, thats what I hear all the time, but I am not sure how man can handle a day without playing with his body parts.

Yes I agree, the differences have been very muchnarrowed this century. And I'm not interested in entering a religious debate or anything but I just wanted to say women in Islam are much more valued than what they seem or appear to be.

[Red Phoenix]

girls, i'm afraid u are missing the point here, i'm just saying it's more fun to be a guy cuz guys have their simple things going for them. no one is better, but u don't see guys complaining about being able to cook ALSO or raise babies well or do their fingernails right and that's cuz guys on average have higher self esteem than ladies hence less inferiority complex. we don’t need to be able to breastfeed our babies, girls can do that a lot better hehe, and the same applies for the requirements of grunt foot soldiers on the other side of the coin so to speak hehe, & it's all got to do with the cursed period that guys aren't banned with. but at any rate, females make for great logistics officers in the army :)

anyhows, i'm just saying live and let live :)

[Saladin]

Originally Posted by Anny

Oh my god, are you serious, coz from what you said, you have no idea what is being a women.

First of all, the period part is nothing, dont be fooled by what people tell you but when girls have their period, they can do whatever they want as much as another normal day. Yes we can be hunters and some of us are already. I have a friend, its a she, and she always go and shoot birds. Also, we can be explorers and many women already are. And yes we can have 300 children but what is so positive about that ? lol Where you thinking it was a positive thing to have such a big amount of kids of your own?

And dont tell me, you men dont nagg? Men always complain about everything and anything but thats not the sex you are of, its the genes, some women dont complain at all while some do and some men always complain and you always count on us to cook for you, do this and do that, we dont nagg for those things. Wait till you get married and tell me how much you will nagg for this and that. I am guessing you are single and living with your mom and dad and that your mom is cooking for you, I want to hear her version of how many times you nagged because you didnt like the supper she did.

Didnt you just say women have the luxury of staying home, cooking and raising kids and arent obliged to work like men? So why are you complaining? If you choose to stay home and cook then we expect you to do your best at it, and we have the right to complain in case the food wasnt of our preferences .

[Anny]

Originally Posted by JD06

u shouldnt prefer to be a boy,(why am i getting so misunderstood today?) i just meant tht so far from the comments by the women i havent seen one reason tht made me think "oh my god i want to be a women"
whether its having a baby grow inside you or eating less(i love eating) the reasons givin havent made me want renounce my manhood, if i was a women id be to busy playing with my t.i.t.s to get anything done so im glad im a guy

You didnt convice me of being a male either. So at the end, we are happy with who we are. The most positive part I am happy to be a girl is my love for males. I would never imagine myself having sex with a women, so I am very happy to be a female to explore my sexual life with a male. Because if I was a man, I would be the most gay man on earth.

[Red Phoenix]

Originally Posted by Saladin

Didnt you just say women have the luxury of staying home, cook and raise kids and arent obliged to work like men? So why are you complaining? If you choose to stay home and cook then we expect your to do you best at it, and we have the right to complain in case the food wasnt of our preferences .

dude, this new generation of fine lady birds couldn't cook right even if our lives depended on it.

poor little us, most of us are preparing our own food these days cuz our gfs/wives only specialize in ordering from this or that fast food franchise hehe

oh by god do i give this testimony :)

[JD06]

women can take more pain than men? really? how was this theory proven?

[Anny]

Originally Posted by Saladin

Yes I agree, the differences have been very muchnarrowed this century. And I'm not interested in entering a religious debate or anything but I just wanted to say women in Islam are much more valued than what they seem or appear to be.

I am not a muslim and I do not live in the arab world but from what I know, I dont know if I would like to be married to a guy and not be able to divorce him specially if he is married to 3 or 4 other women than me. But I am not gonna talk in religion here. So lets keep this thread between just between an opposite sex thread.

PS: christian people who get married in churches have the same problems to get divorced, its hard to divorce if you get married in the first place.