Can u love more than one person? TOTW [16.10.06 -22.10.06]

[Coldplayer]

Originally Posted by Stella

You know dear I never believed in these cliches, I am too non-comformist to believe in such categorization. So as I said, the opposite of love is the lack of love. Think about it, and you realize which is worse, someone who is full of hate, or someone who "has got no heart".



wow and you are talking about going into philosophics?
Maybe I am too earth-bound in my thinking, but for me one person to love would be just enough at a time

OK Stella, la 3ayounik I will marry 2 woman and love both of them (true love) at the same time

Each and every person is different. If a girl in the same case of Stella thinks she can never love more than one person at the same time that may be right - in her case only. Either she is a type of girl who don't get in love that much (difficult to love), or she is committed to love just one person.
Lets suppose a girl really falls in real love many times with different guys. shu il mene3a if she will love more than one person at the same time?

[Elyane El Helou]

Originally Posted by Stella

Do you think our human mind at this stage is capable for loving 2 person equally devotedly, sincerely and full heartedly?

No, women can't love 2 men at the same time. Actually when in a troublesome relationship and second man shows up he cancels the one before him... 2 relations at the same time are possible when we are teenagers or early 20's or when we are immature and unstable, such relationships are instinctive infatuations, and we tend to forget about them when we move one into the next ones.

My personal view is that there s no way for a woman to love 2 men at the same time not even separately because love comes once in life the rest are categorized as affairs.

Every human being has a match made in heaven somewhere ...... Some go through their whole lives without meeting their match that s why so many people inspite of all their success they know something is missing.

The luckiest ones among us are the ones who get to meet and spend their lives with their match but they are the very few.....

[Nadim]

Originally Posted by Elyane El Helou

No, women can't love 2 men at the same time. Actually when in a troublesome relationship and second man shows up he cancels the one before him... 2 relations at the same time are possible when we are teenagers or early 20's or when we are immature and unstable, such relationships are instinctive infatuations, and we tend to forget about them when we move one into the next ones.

My personal view is that there s no way for a woman to love 2 men at the same time not even separately because love comes once in life the rest are categorized as affairs.

Every human being has a match made in heaven somewhere ...... Some go through their whole lives without meeting their match that s why so many people inspite of all their success they know something is missing.

The luckiest ones among us are the ones who get to meet and spend their lives with their match but they are the very few.....

Elyane.. How do you know that the relation a guy /girl went through was love or just a passing one ?

what about if the girl thinks that he is the one while the boy thinks she is not ? is it mismatching ??

[lady_forever]

Originally Posted by Coldplayer

OK Stella, la 3ayounik I will marry 2 woman and love both of them (true love) at the same time

Each and every person is different. If a girl in the same case of Stella thinks she can never love more than one person at the same time that may be right - in her case only. Either she is a type of girl who don't get in love that much (difficult to love), or she is committed to love just one person.
Lets suppose a girl really falls in real love many times with different guys. shu il mene3a if she will love more than one person at the same time?

yes a girl can love many times but one by one not all same there is someone who will be special in her heart then if she loves them equally then i dont call it love i call it friendship..so its totally different than loving one guy he should be special he should be number one in ur life and in that case u will understand that its love ..the word love is big we can love each person in different way but loving one man willing to spend ur whole life with him carry his kids and be his no matter that is called love....

[Elyane El Helou]

Originally Posted by Nadim

Elyane.. How do you know that the relation a guy /girl went through was love or just a passing one ?

what about if the girl thinks that he is the one while the boy thinks she is not ? is it mismatching ??

Nadim ..

1- VERY Easy when you look back and you don't feel a thing it means it was a passing one.

Soulmates can't mismatch, they will both be passionate about eachother and oceans can't make them part..... It s always a 2 way thing.
Trust me when you meet your soulmate you will both recognize eachother

[Nadim]

Originally Posted by Elyane El Helou

Nadim ..

1- VERY Easy when you look back and you don't feel a thing it means it was a passing one.

Soulmates can't mismatch, they will both be passionate about eachother and oceans can't make them part..... It s always a 2 way thing.
Trust me when you meet your soulmate you will both recognize eachother

You look back : please explain it in detail .. Because I met this girl and I felt for her a lot and she did too but she messed up the relation with a smthg wrong she did . and I broke up at the end . ( she said that it might be impossible to be together , cause she was older than me by 9 yrs ) . Now I am sad that we left and donno what to do .. if I look back i have to forgive and sacrifice and... maybe challenge the world for her . How will I know if she is the one and deserves to invest all this for her ?

thks

[coralie]

before going deeper in this debate can we define LOVE . ?

Cause from what i am reading i did nt quit understand what do you mean by LOVE 2 persons at the same time .
love them both with same power and devotion ?
physicly attracted ?
deep emotional feeling ?
platonic feeling ?
what is Love ? ....................
define LOVE . and then say if you can love 2 ppl at the same time the sam way or not .

[lady_forever]

I guess what they meant is loving two women or two men equally being fully attracted to both and having same feeling towards them....i personally dont believe in that cause in ur heart deep u find someone more special than the other and he be ur favorite one...

[Superman]

Originally Posted by Orange Patriot

If you can hate two different people... you can surely love two different people. ;)

I think someone can love 2 different people... U're right Orange Patriot. If u can share everything with 2 different people, respect 2 different people, be honest with them, have similar things with them, have opposite things with them, trust both of them, etc... But one more thing to add, what about the passion? The desire? Or maybe the romance?

Can u desire 2 different people at the same time? Can u be passionate about 2 different people at the same time?

I believe it was Stella who asked this: "But seriously guys, when you truly love someone, why on earth would you need someone else in addition??"
My answer is simply: Because that other person might have qualities ur partner doesn't have

[Stella]

Originally Posted by Superman

I think someone can love 2 different people... U're right Orange Patriot. If u can share everything with 2 different people, respect 2 different people, be honest with them, have similar things with them, have opposite things with them, trust both of them, etc... But one more thing to add, what about the passion? The desire? Or maybe the romance?

Can u desire 2 different people at the same time? Can u be passionate about 2 different people at the same time?

I believe it was Stella who asked this: "But seriously guys, when you truly love someone, why on earth would you need someone else in addition??"
My answer is simply: Because that other person might have qualities ur partner doesn't have

Just a question Tazz. You would have two girls then, so that they can complement each others and give the perfect mix of qualities? And do the 2 girl have a say in that too that you are dating them at a time?