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From his spartan hermitage several miles up a narrow footpath in northern Lebanon's Qadisha valley, Colombian expat Dario Escobar spoke about his love of football and the other, silent hermit further up the valley.



By Rana Moussaoui
20 Oct 2009
Telegraph.co.uk


The 75-year-old recluse hails from a wealthy Colombian family and lived a life of ease before withdrawing from the world when he arrived nine years ago at the stone-built Hawka monastery, located inside a cave.

"We lived in a comfortable house in a fashionable neighbourhood. I was a fortunate man," admits Father Dario, whose only possession now is a worn-out hand-me-down black cassock.

The family, comprising his parents and his six brothers and sisters, lived in Medellín in north-west Colombia, though the priest denies any link with the notorious drug trafficker Pablo Escobar, who hailed from the same town.

"Money never made me happy. On the contrary, it brought me headaches. I gave up everything and heeded God's call," said the hermit, who sports a long grey beard and has a gentle, deeply creased face.

"Anyone who has tried this life would not want any other," he insists.

Qadisha, nicknamed Valley of the Saints because of its many convents and hermitages, "is the ideal place for prayer and solitude," said Father Dario.

He said he arrived in Lebanon in the early 1990s after meeting a Lebanese priest in the United States who spoke about the natural and spiritual beauty of the country.

He spent several years in various monasteries and hermitages throughout Lebanon before choosing Qadisha as his new home.

A rambler walking far along a rocky, steep trail in the region's lush glades may sometimes catch a glimpse of his ascetic, ghost-like silhouette.

"Here I find an inner peace which I would not give up even for the greatest of fortunes," the hermit says, his eyes smiling as he speaks.

Father Dario's pillow is a lump of stone and a wooden board covers a thin mattress, while a cross, a candle and an alarm clock are the ornaments in his tiny bedroom.

"I can no longer sleep on a pillow," he says.

"I eat what I grow. Anything I cannot prepare here they bring me from the nearby convent." His vegetarian menu boasts beans, onions and potatoes all grown in a kitchen garden sometimes raided by squirrels and wild boar.

Father Dario used to be a lecturer in theology, psychology and Biblical Greek but now, "as a hermit, I live in absolute poverty and I am happy like that. No newspapers, no telephone, no television, no radio and of course no internet or Facebook".

He has not returned to his country, nor seen his family in 20 years.

"I don't want them to come here and I pray for Colombia but I don't want to go back there," he said.

Apart from a few monks, hikers wandering near his remote hermitage are his sole contact with the outside world.

"Usually I speak to no-one, though sometimes people who think a hermit must know the future come and ask me: 'Will I find a husband? A job?'"

And even in his life of seclusion, he has not remained ignorant of Lebanon's political upheavals.

"I was asked who will win the elections. 'What will happen to [Samir] Geagea? To Michel Aoun?' How am I supposed to know?" he laughed, referring to two rival Christian leaders.

His passion for football no longer plays any part in his daily routine, which involves 14 hours of prayer, three of cultivating his garden, two of reading mystical books and five of sleep.

"I am not allowed to sleep longer than that.. nor to cut my beard, in accordance with Vatican rules," the recluse says.

In his little office, a skull stands over a bookcase full of lives of the saints. "It is to prepare for death," he says.

Despite his life of silence, Father Dario says he is never bored and even claims that others have a more ascetic lifestyle.

"There is another hermit in the valley but he never talks to anyone. He hasn't for years."
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I read about this in the newspaper today... Interesting...

Why Lebanon?
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I give most of the credit to the hermits and monks, they are the true believers!

ah Qadisha Valley...beautiful!!
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I give most of the credit to the hermits and monks, they are the true believers!
I don't think so, humans were not born to isolate themselves and live 'for God' (as they call it). If you make a difference to mankind and serve humanity rather than isolating yourself from humans, you are then truly living for God. Isolation is a living death and an escape from life, might as well die then!

Where the hell did these ideas come from? Was there ever anyone who lived the way these people are living during the times of messengers? Did Jesus do that, or did he "MOVE" to deliver a message and make a difference? What good is going to come from me if I move to a cave to drown in ignorance? Do these people know what is happening in the world or is it not their concern because they've decided to live with God?
They've given up their wealth, but they could do MUCH more among humans than by being isolated!

I by all means respect those people, but many questions puzzle me when I read about them.

This is called a true hermit:



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He said he arrived in Lebanon in the early 1990s after meeting a Lebanese priest in the United States who spoke about the natural and spiritual beauty of the country.

He spent several years in various monasteries and hermitages throughout Lebanon before choosing Qadisha as his new home.
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Yes, but why Lebanon out of all the world! It's not like there's no beauty anywhere else!
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I guess you should ask him
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I don't think so, humans were not born to isolate themselves and live 'for God' (as they call it). If you make a difference to mankind and serve humanity rather than isolating yourself from humans, you are then truly living for God. Isolation is a living death and an escape from life, might as well die then!

Where the hell did these ideas come from? Was there ever anyone who lived the way these people are living during the times of messengers? Did Jesus do that, or did he "MOVE" to deliver a message and make a difference? What good is going to come from me if I move to a cave to drown in ignorance? Do these people know what is happening in the world or is it not their concern because they've decided to live with God?
They've given up their wealth, but they could do MUCH more among humans than by being isolated!

I by all means respect those people, but many questions puzzle me when I read about them.

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If you want to prove your strength, you do that in the face of the storm not behind a brick wall.

I said I give most of the credit, not all:D

I also know about many such examples as Mother Theresa...who not just give an example of true modesty and faithfulness but they are also doing something for the sake of a community/humanity...they are the rare among the so called believers

I still find the hermits truer believers than the hypocrite believers, from which we have a lot
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I give most of the credit to the hermits and monks, they are the true believers!

ah Qadisha Valley...beautiful!!

Lol, most of them are charlatans (specially the monks). And believe me, I know quite a few of them!
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