[Faithful]

It is hard Chief, very hard to accept this new situation..... specially consulting a specialist heyk from the beginning... coz he is refusing the idea min asslo, he is refusing being different than all other people.

I think family can help him a lot Chief:

First: they have to show him love and care because he will need it a lot.

Second: Do never feel pity on him and especially do not show him this 7aram famous look ... he will get hurt more than u imagine

Third: Take care of him but do no exagerate ... ya3ni treat him as all the family members ... he is not different from anyone else, even if he is paralysed... he shouldn't be treated differently.

Forth: He has to pass the denial phase first to be able later to accept his situation... don't push him to get over it ... he needs to cry, to get angry, to shout, to hate himself, to hate everyone around him, to pity himself, to be alone most of the time ... those reactions are inevitable... so give him the time he needs to get over it.

Fifth: and i think this is the most important think to do, is to pray for him so he can pass these hard times, to accept his situation and trying to continue living as all other people...Believe me praying do miracles

At the end, life goes on... he can not change the past, he just needs to accept his present.... let him always remember that people will look at him the same way he looks at himself..... so better feeling good about himself and dont let people hurt him.