there are plenty of forums. just like finding this forum wasn't too hard.
maybe try this one:
Israel Military Forum
I don't have a favorite israeli forum in english, i prefer hebrew ones, they tend to be more populated.
you're mistaken about iraq, btw. the iraqi army was never on the doorsteps of tel-aviv. it went as far as the 'triangle' area and hasn't progressed from there due to being stopped by a counterattack. I asked my iraqi friends and they confirmed it.