[tikamak]

all the psycology you need lies with the love of your partner, rather than spending tons of money on a guy that will eventually will give you a dose of andheral depending on how hopeless your case is, be strong and try to get rid of it yourself, talk it out with the girl/guy that you love, make sure they understand you.
he's not gonna tell you stuff that you don't know, he's just gonna give you a placebo medicament that eventually will make you cure yourself just to get rid of it.
trust me, the human brain can do it alone ...
good luck.