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Originally Posted by coralie  same here ... 2 things in life i cant forgive because they hurt too much .
Mahatma Ghadi said forgiveness is the quality of the strong well i guess i am not that strong and there is things in life i simply cant forgive because i cant forget !
"I can forgive, but I cannot forget, is only another way of saying, I will not forgive. Forgiveness ought to be like a cancelled note - torn in two, and burned up, so that it never can be shown against one.
-- Henry Ward Beecher." |
Coralie, i agree with you when you said: i can forgive but i cant forget.
What i meant about forgetting is that when you see or remember the person who hurt you, you won't feel the same pain anymore if you forgave him. And not to totally forget what he did to you. But his effect on you will change.
Inno why you must feel the pain to the rest of your life? he doesn't deserve to spend all your energy on anger and hate. Its like he owns you for the rest of your life. Are you getting me?