[lebanon4ever]

first,sincere talks should be held between the couple in order to negociate the resons of this routine:why it is there?when it began?...

Second,you cannot avoid the routine,it is something that all our life is based on it:routine can be avoid only when you are in school or university,each year you meet new people new teachers and other class rooms.So mainly our life is constituted from things repeating itself.

Third,about the feeling of love.wekk i ask you :how do you identifie love?is it only sensations?or it is something related to love and mind as well?
routine for me is a very important thing,it makes both,the guy and th egirl be more mature and know how to deal with their relationship.
Dont you think that our parents had felt the routine long time ago?so why they are still together?
mainly because they have committed and have made their promise that they will be together.
I know a simple relationship is not that important as marriage,but if you really like the other person and if you really thinks that she continues your soul well don't be afraid.

fourth,about the feelings,well time will tell.give everything to time,i am so sure that the love flame will burn again the lovers hearts,so just relie on time.

Finally,if you think that there is a lot of routine goin on,both should try to get away a little,and review everything that happenned during the relationship,everyone alone,and ask yourself if this girl is worth enough to continue that relationship...
Here the mind play its role because the person must think,put some objectives for the relation,and try to look a little ahead in the future.