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Originally Posted by lebanon4ever I want to tell you about my friendship with two girls.The first is one year older than me,the other is three years older.
we were friends for about two years,when suddenly love knocked on the girls door,the first started to go out with a guy,i could not see her too much anymore,the second got engaged and didn't have that much time for me or for every other friend.
This thing made ,the friendship flame go away little by little ,it dissappeared and the friendship ended.
The moral of the story,is ,due to the complication of our lebanese society ,a girl and a man cannot always be close friends.where will this friendship ends???
Imagine ,in the future,i am telling to my spouse that i am going out alone with a friend (who is a woman).
Is my spouse ready to accept this idea???
Am i ready to accept that my spouse is going out with her best friend who happens to be a guy???
WIll my best friend accept me as a guest in her home,while her husband is out ???
WILL THE SOCIETY ACCEPT THIS FACT???????????
We should not forget that our society needs a lot of work,in lebanon,if a man says hello to a woman,it means they are going out...
so this is my experience woth friendships from the opposite sex,even if this friendship becomes deep,sooner this friendship towards one woman will be towards the woman and her husband and won't be exclusive to the woman only. |
I second abirward
what you have said is very true, indeed