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Originally Posted by Xena  hahaha no no they didn't enlarge a picture of him :p
Yeah that s true... but some people still don't think that it's a "good thing" and start giving you the strangest arguments like
-They re cold people they dont show their emotions like lebanese men do ( As if they ever met my man)
-Their marriages never last ( coming sometimes from people who are really very unhappily married)
-They're not like us (leh ne7na kif?)
-They dont give an importance to the family (that's weird because i still havent seen the difference between how important my family is to me and how important his family is to him!)
-your children will not speak lebanese and will not be emotionally attached to lebanon ( that depends on whether i will teach them to speak lebanese or not...and on whether i will make them love lebanon or not)
-etc...etc...etc... |
Well, it's basically none of their business... Europeans are not much different to us in general... especially those living in Europe. Many of them value marriage and family. You can't live with someone who has a different mentality to yours. Common beliefs and values are important, just as differences can be healthy and exciting :D If you're too similar it's boring and if you're too different it's not gonna work. That's how it is with marriages...